Act Around a Girl Who Knows You Fancy Her
When you have told a girl you like her, you need to know how to act around her. It is not wrong to like a girl, nor is it wrong to be known by her or others. But you must know how to behave after this secret is known openly so that you are not misunderstood by anyone. This article will explain how.
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Steps
- Give her a few days to think about your offer, but don't avoid her. Talk to her like you would to anyone else. If you ignore her, she'll think that you are angry with her. That is not a good place to start a relationship.
- Find some time alone with her. Explain it to her that you are sorry for any upset you have caused her (girls love to know that a guy truly cares). Straighten out any rumors that are flying around. Make sure that in doing this, you're not pressuring her.
- Talk to her in other places that you normally see her. It'll help her feel more relaxed and show that you take time for her.
- Be encouraging. Compliment her, but not too much or you'll sound obsessive. Make sure you only compliment her if what you are saying is sincere.
- Act normal. Talk to her, but act like she doesn't know you fancy her. Do not pretend not to like her because its not polite or nice to her and then you will never have a chance with her.
- Don't rule out frankness. Just because you like her does not mean you withhold any helpful views from her. If you feel that she must know something, say it frankly but gently. She will appreciate you.
- If she is mature enough, she may also consider you to be a gentleman.
- Have a life. The message is to be nonchalant. Liking someone puts one's dignity under risk as most feel vulnerable and curb the desire to hurt the girl. One way you could maintain a stand or save face is by being relaxed and minding your own business. For that you must have some business. Engage into productive and positive activities and see yourself appear brighter before her and the rest of the crowd. Being busy will also guard you against being overtly exposed to any shock or disappointment if any.
Tips
- If she doesn't give you the opportunity, create conversation about other things.
- Make sure that she knows how you feel. If you still like her then tell her.
- If you are on good terms with her still, be supportive of her. Let her know that you respect her decision.
Warnings
- Don't badmouth her. If you seriously want her then respect her. It'll show when you talk to her.
- One proven method of attracting girls (especially if you're under 25-ish) is to act mature around your friends. Make them envy you for being so up high but down low too. Always be mature around girls and make sure not to look disinterested but still be cool about most minor things.
- Again, always act yourself. In movies, liars will be found out but then things will work out. This won't necessarily happen in real life. You'll probably be found out and then you've ruined a potentially good relationship and may ruin future ones as well.
- A girl likes a guy who is not troubled by petty things. "Buying a girl coffee is fine; buying her a car is not." You should be nice and considerate but not overbearing.
