Get the Girl You Like to Like You Back
Template:StubOnce you get into the comfort zone, it's quite possible that a girl will feel confident enough to tell you how she feels. When she expresses her emotions, it's your responsibility to listen first, then express your feelings in turn. In this way, it is hoped that she will begin to like you as much as you like her.
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Steps
- Be outgoing and confident. Being bold is helpful. Don't make her do all the talking; it's uncomfortable being around someone who barely says a word. Don't be afraid to say how you feel.
- Don't be cocky. Don't act like you have no flaws, because that makes you seem arrogant and that's no way to a girl's heart. Act naturally and with genuine intent to connect.
- Be sweet by giving compliments. Tell her sweet things, as simple as, "Hey gorgeous," or even "How is it that every time I see you, you look even more beautiful?" It may sound corny, but it's sure to melt her heart.
- Notice her appearance. Everyone appreciates being noticed and complimented. For example, you can say, "That outfit, is that one piece, or two?" Even something that sounds that silly shows that you noticed what she's wearing and actually care.
- Notice her accomplishments. Ask questions like, "Do you play any instruments?" or "What's your sport?" Then compliment them on that ability by saying, "I bet you're really good at [the cello]." (Replace the starred item with something she does.)
- Maintain eye contact. Look her in the eyes; it shows her that you have genuine interest. It tells her that you're willing to connect and aren't shying away from being open and caring.
- Be funny and try to impress her. Telling jokes or being funny is a great way to show her that you like her. Also, try to impress her. For example, if you are good at basketball, and you are playing, try to pull off some of your best moves.
- Be a corny romantic. A few cheesy pick-up lines can be entertaining once you get into the comfort zone. Be careful with this though, because she may think you are still joking. However, pick-up lines like, "Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only 10 I see!" will definitely get a giggle for the sheer audacity of your cheeky humor.
- Hint around. Ask her questions like "Do you have a boyfriend?" or "Do you like anyone?" or even "Do you want a boyfriend right now?". After showing her that you care about what she has to say earlier, she may feel comfortable enough to tell you and she'll certainly be bright enough to see what direction this is taking both of you in. If she says she's keen on you, then you can tell her you like her a lot. Then you can ask her if she is looking for a relationship. If she says yes, then you are set!
- Focus on her. Throughout all of these steps, focus on being sensitive and thoughtful. Most of all, focus on her to show that she is the one you want and that you're capable of actually caring and staying interested.
Tips
- Be warmhearted. Tell her that you care, and ask about her life story.
- Be thoughtful. Open doors for her, and treat her like the only girl in existence. If she does the same for you, be gracious and accepting.
- Let her know how you feel.
- Take care of your hygiene.
- Don't try to impress her too much or she might get annoyed and walk away.
Warnings
- Do not be too cocky. This could make a girl think that the only person that you are into is yourself.
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