Dress Modestly As a Muslim Girl

Hijab is the principle of modesty in Islamic culture, as well as the word used to define the veil Muslim women wear. A Muslim girl or woman has the right to interpret the modesty rules outlined in the Qur’an. As a result, there is not one right way for a Muslim girl or woman to dress modestly, but a multitude of right ways. While many make the decision to wear a hijab, others opt not to wear the covering.

Steps

Making an Informed Decision

1. Study and assess religious and scholarly literature pertaining to modesty in Muslim culture. For centuries, scholars have debated the rules of modesty outlined for followers in the Qur’an. Familiarizing yourself with these arguments and interpreting the scriptures of the Qur’an will help you understand the benefits of hijab and prepare you to make an informed choice.
   • Be open to reading authors that do not support your personal perspective.
2. Discuss the topic of modesty with your parents. Talk to your father and mother about their expectations for how you dress and ask them to provide you with some suggestions and guidance. Ask your parents what they think it means to dress modestly. Are they comfortable with you wearing long dresses or skirts or would they prefer you to wear an abaya? How do they feel about the niqab?
   • Go shopping with your mom and or dad.
   • Talk with the women of your family about how they reached their own personal interpretation of the requirements of hijab.
3. Determine what it means for you to dress modestly. It is a personal choice that will be informed primarily by your religious beliefs, but also political opinions and cultural understanding.
   • Don’t wear the hijab until you can fully commit to wearing it everyday.
   • Frequently alternating between wearing and not wearing the hijab should be avoided as Allah prefers consistency in acts of worship.
4. Reaffirm your decision periodically. While you may initially choose to wear a hijab as a teenager, you may be tempted to uncover as an adult. This is very common. Don’t hesitate to review the evidence and rationale for covering from the Qur'an and Sunnah if you need a reminder.

Dressing Modestly while Wearing a Hijab

1. Wear a hijab, or head covering. In the Qur’an, Allah commands that women should only expose that which must ordinarily appear. Many interpret this to mean that only a woman’s hands, face, (and sometimes feet) may be displayed. Women honor this rule of modesty by wearing a hijab, a veil that wraps around their head, leaving the face uncovered while completely concealing their hair, neck, and chest. You may choose from several types of hijabs, or head coverings. Pick the one that is right for you:
   • Shayla: Wrap this rectangular scarf around your head and use a pin to secure it at your shoulders.
   • Khimar: Wear this cape-like scarf wrapped tightly around your head. It will hang loosely at your mid-back.
   • Chador: If you prefer more coverage, choose this floor-length scarf. It is a longer version of the Khimar.
   • Niqab: The niqab is a cloth face covering chosen by many Muslim women to provide additional protection.
   • Burqa: The burqa will cover you from head-to-toe—a small mesh panel over your eyes is the only opening.
   • Traditionally, hijabs come in plain, non-attention grabbing colors, like black, white, blue, and brown. If you feel comfortable wearing colors and patterns, a fashionable scarf from your local department store may be substituted for a solid colored hijab.
2. Wear loose fitting clothes. Under your hijab, wear loose, non-revealing tops and bottoms. Sheer and or figure hugging clothing should be avoided.
   • Remember, the type of clothing you wear under your hijab is completely dependent upon your comfort level and understanding of modesty. Ask your parents for a second opinion if you are unsure about a certain piece of clothing.
   • If you prefer full coverage, shop for maxi skirts, wide leg pants, long dresses and abayas.
   • Want to wear skinny jeans or leggings? Pair them under a long flowing top or dress.
   • If you want to wear a tighter outfit, cover it up with an abaya or jilbab.
3. Apply natural-looking make-up. Like bright colors and patterns, make-up should be worn sparingly. If you choose to wear make-up on a daily-basis, go for a natural look. Apply minimal amounts of foundation, blush, mascara, and lip-gloss to enhance your natural beauty and features.
   • During holidays, such as Eid, it is acceptable to wear more dramatic make-up.
4. Limit the amount of jewelry you wear. Avoid chunky necklaces and statement earrings. Instead, select small, dainty pieces of jewelry that can easily be tucked under your hijab.
   • If you are open to accessorizing your look, try to chose adornments that are understated.
   • Avoid any ostentatious branded or designer hijabs.

Dressing Modestly while not Wearing a Hijab

1. Wear non-revealing clothes. You can still dress modestly if you choose not to wear a hijab. Instead of wearing tight, revealing tops and bottoms, put on wide-leg pants and a matching long-sleeve shirt.
   • Base your outfits on your personal comfort level.
   • Maxi-skirts, long dresses, and flowy tops are essential staples of a modest wardrobe.
   • Seek a second opinion if you are unsure whether a certain top or bottom is too tight.
   • Full coverage does not have to look dowdy and matronly! Mix and match trendy items or vintage pieces with the staples of your modest wardrobe for a chic look. Pair black jeans with boots, a long wool trench coat, and a turtleneck sweater.
2. Layer your clothing. Laying your clothing is key to achieving an on-trend modest look. Do you have an absolutely amazing low-cut shirt in your closet? Make it modest by wearing it over a blouse or long-sleeved t-shirt for coverage. Add a scarf for additional coverage and a pop of color. Cover up tight skinny jeans with a long sweater, coat, or flannel blouse tied around your waist.
   • Get creative! Experiment with layer different pieces until you find a look that you are comfortable wearing.
3. Wear tops with high necklines. Determine if a neckline is too low by measuring the distance from your collar bone to the top of your shirt using your fingers as a measuring tool--one to four finger-widths is ideal, while five finger widths may verge on too revealing. Cover your cleavage with turtlenecks, boatneck shirts, and blouses.
   • Tie a scarf around your neck to cover a lower neckline.
   • Wear a tank-top with a high neckline under a shirt that is too low in the front.
4. Check your look in the mirror. Before going out, stand in front of a full length mirror. Bend forwards, backwards, and side-to-side. Try to sitting down and raising your arms. If your clothing shifts to reveal your midriff or your chest, consider changing or adding additional layers to your look before leaving the house.
5. Apply natural-looking make-up. Opt for a care-free, natural look when applying your make-up. Use a small amounts of concealer, blush, mascara, and a dash of lip gloss for a fresh, simple look. Make-up should be used to enhance your beautiful, natural features, not overpower or mask them.
   • During holidays, such as Eid, go for a more dramatic, sparkly look. Try a smoky eye and a berry lip!
   • Ask your mom and friends for make-up tips. How do they achieve a natural look?
6. Limit the amount of jewelry you wear. Simple, understated pieces of jewelry can have a major impact on any outfit. Chose dainty necklaces and earrings.

Tips

• Creativity is key to obtaining a modest and chic image.
• A long sleeved chiffon-type cloth for the shirt always looks modest.
• Wear a loose abaya over a shirt that's too tight.
• Solid, neutral colors, such as black, brown, and dark blue, can help you achieve a more modest look.
• If you want to wear shorts or a miniskirt, pair them with leggings to cover your legs.

Sources and Citations

See also

• Dress in Dubai
• Be a Pretty Hijabi
• Put on a Hijab
• Wear a Hijab
• Choose Whether to Wear the Hijab
• Wear Niqab in a Non Muslim Country

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