Get the New Girl to Like You

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So there is a new girl at your school that you've taken a liking to? Not sure how to get her to like you, too? Whether you want her as a friend or girlfriend, follow these steps and she'll be feeling the same about you in no time!

Steps

  1. Introduce yourself to her. Since she's new, she probably doesn't know very many people. Just the simple act of introducing yourself can really make an impact on her.
    • Approach her confidently, greet her, and tell her your name.
    • Ask her how she is coming along in your school and if she needs any help adjusting.
  2. Make casual conversations whenever you see her. She may already have friends she talks to, but that doesn't mean she couldn't use one more. If you sit by her in a class, pass her in the halls, or wherever else you may see her and and have the opportunity to talk with her, do so. Make jokes (in good taste), ask questions, and tell interesting stories. Just get a conversation going and see where it leads.
  3. Make sure she has the right friends to talk to otherwise they will tell you all the weird or embarrassing things you did earlier.
  4. Give her your phone number or ask for hers. Be casual about it. Tell her to text you sometime. If she gives you hers, text her later in the evening (not as soon as you get home) to give her your number. Every once in a while, text her to ask what's up and get a conversation going.
  5. Ask her out somewhere. You can either do this in person or on the phone, whichever you think would be easier for you. Invite along a couple mutual friends, or several of yours and ask her to invite several of hers, to make it less awkward. Make sure she knows if it is a date or not.
  6. Continue to hang out with her. Slowly, your friendship will continue to build. It could end up as a romantic relationship, or just really good friends.

Tips

  • Remember to relax. If you're nervous, don't show it. The more confident you appear to be, the more interest she will take in you. Plus, if you act confident, you will trick yourself into feeling confident, which is always a benefit.
  • This above all, be nice to her and pay attention to her. Show an interest in the things she likes, and do not blow her off for your friends.
  • If you do not have a cell phone, or do not have text messaging, don't worry. There's nothing wrong with calling her. However, you might need to wait until you are a little bit more acquainted for that, so there are not a lot of awkward silences. See How to Make a Social Phone Call for help.

Warnings

  • Don't come on too strongly. Remember, the more gradual you are, the stronger the relationship will be. No one wants a stalker.
  • Do not ask her friends what she thinks about you unless you are okay with them telling her you asked. Remember, anything you tell her friends will get back to her.
  • If she does not end up feeling the same about you, don't feel bad. There are plenty of other girls out there that appreciate you for who you are. Never change who you are for a girl.
  • Don't overfill her inbox with text messages. It will make her think of you as annoying or clingy. If she doesn't text back immediately, give her time. She is probably just busy doing something else. Even if she is ignoring you (which she most likely isn't) she's no more likely to answer your fifteenth message as your first.

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