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#*Putting on music might help you find a rhythm, especially if you feel self-conscious or awkward. | #*Putting on music might help you find a rhythm, especially if you feel self-conscious or awkward. | ||
#Take off a big jacket or a trench coat. Make the most of it by standing directly in front of your partner with your legs apart, your weight slightly over one leg. Maintain eye contact as you deliberately undo the buttons. | #Take off a big jacket or a trench coat. Make the most of it by standing directly in front of your partner with your legs apart, your weight slightly over one leg. Maintain eye contact as you deliberately undo the buttons. | ||
| − | #Walk around playfully for a couple minutes. Don't be in a rush to get naked; the "tease" part of a striptease will get your partner excited. Tell your partner to stay seated on a chair, and walk around the chair showing off your body from the front, back, and sides. Tug at the straps on your dress or bra, or the buttons on your shirt, as though you are about to take them off any second.<ref>http://site.themarriagebed.com/sexuality/sexual-play/how-to-strip-female</ref> Get creative with your own sexy poses, or include these: | + | #Walk around playfully for a couple minutes. Don't be in a rush to get naked; the "tease" part of a striptease will get your partner excited. Tell your partner to stay seated on a chair, and walk around the chair showing off your body from the front, back, and sides. Tug at the straps on your dress or bra, or the buttons on your shirt, as though you are about to take them off any second.<ref name="rf1">http://site.themarriagebed.com/sexuality/sexual-play/how-to-strip-female</ref> Get creative with your own sexy poses, or include these: |
#*If you're wearing a low-cut shirt, bend forward over your partner briefly. | #*If you're wearing a low-cut shirt, bend forward over your partner briefly. | ||
#*Face away from your partner and bend forward over a chair or bed. | #*Face away from your partner and bend forward over a chair or bed. | ||
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#Seductively strip off a jumper or T-shirt. Either stand with your legs together in a feminine stance with one ball on the foot knee pointing in, or go for a stronger stance with your legs sexily spread apart with your weight slightly to one side. Cross your arms across your chest and suck your stomach in as you lift your hands up over your head. | #Seductively strip off a jumper or T-shirt. Either stand with your legs together in a feminine stance with one ball on the foot knee pointing in, or go for a stronger stance with your legs sexily spread apart with your weight slightly to one side. Cross your arms across your chest and suck your stomach in as you lift your hands up over your head. | ||
#*If you have long hair, shake your head and let your hair flow out as you do this. | #*If you have long hair, shake your head and let your hair flow out as you do this. | ||
| − | #Tease with a button-up shirt. Button-up shirts are perfect for stripping, since you can turn each button into its own mini-performance. Try leaving a couple buttons at the top and bottom undone in advance to make the outfit sexier. Remove the buttons slowly, one by one, as you continue to move around and pose. Once all the buttons are undone, slip the shirt down low over your shoulders, turn your back to your partner, and let the shirt fall to the floor.<ref>http://www.chroniclebooks.com/landing-pages/Chronicle/excerpt/0811846474-e1.html</ref> | + | #Tease with a button-up shirt. Button-up shirts are perfect for stripping, since you can turn each button into its own mini-performance. Try leaving a couple buttons at the top and bottom undone in advance to make the outfit sexier. Remove the buttons slowly, one by one, as you continue to move around and pose. Once all the buttons are undone, slip the shirt down low over your shoulders, turn your back to your partner, and let the shirt fall to the floor.<ref name="rf2">http://www.chroniclebooks.com/landing-pages/Chronicle/excerpt/0811846474-e1.html</ref> |
#*Unbutton the cuffs first, or undo them in advance before you enter the room. | #*Unbutton the cuffs first, or undo them in advance before you enter the room. | ||
#*You can sex this up a bit by only using one hand while having the other on your hip. Practice this in advance if you're going to try it. | #*You can sex this up a bit by only using one hand while having the other on your hip. Practice this in advance if you're going to try it. | ||
#Take off negligees. Keep teasing your partner between items of clothing, or ask "are you ready for more?" a few times before giving in. Lower the straps of your negligee or similar loose item of clothing over your shoulders and let it fall, or shimmy it down to the floor. | #Take off negligees. Keep teasing your partner between items of clothing, or ask "are you ready for more?" a few times before giving in. Lower the straps of your negligee or similar loose item of clothing over your shoulders and let it fall, or shimmy it down to the floor. | ||
| − | #Remove a skirt. A zippered skirt is great for beginners, since you can remove it easily and unexpectedly while striking almost any pose. A short, clingy skirt is another good option, and can be pulled up to reveal your butt before shimmying it off.<ref | + | #Remove a skirt. A zippered skirt is great for beginners, since you can remove it easily and unexpectedly while striking almost any pose. A short, clingy skirt is another good option, and can be pulled up to reveal your butt before shimmying it off.<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | #Learn how to make jean removal sexy. You might want to practice this one in advance, since tight jeans tend to be less sexy when you're falling over with your legs trapped. Try kneeling, then pushing your jeans down to your knees while you stick your butt out at your partner. Sit back on your butt to pull the jeans off the rest of the way.<ref | + | #Learn how to make jean removal sexy. You might want to practice this one in advance, since tight jeans tend to be less sexy when you're falling over with your legs trapped. Try kneeling, then pushing your jeans down to your knees while you stick your butt out at your partner. Sit back on your butt to pull the jeans off the rest of the way.<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | #Play with your stockings. You might want to leave your stockings on, especially with a sexy garter belt. On the other hand, a simple pair of nylon stockings can be a great prop. Put your leg up on a chair and roll them off slowly, then snapping it away slingshot style, or pretend to tie your wrists together. These are great visuals and good methods for adding a bit of cheeky humour to the mood.<ref>http://www.sofeminine.co.uk/sex-sexuality/how-to-striptease-dita-von-teese-d42163c508580.html</ref> | + | #Play with your stockings. You might want to leave your stockings on, especially with a sexy garter belt. On the other hand, a simple pair of nylon stockings can be a great prop. Put your leg up on a chair and roll them off slowly, then snapping it away slingshot style, or pretend to tie your wrists together. These are great visuals and good methods for adding a bit of cheeky humour to the mood.<ref name="rf3">http://www.sofeminine.co.uk/sex-sexuality/how-to-striptease-dita-von-teese-d42163c508580.html</ref> |
#*If you can walk around and pose gracefully with heels, you could leave them on as well as the stockings. | #*If you can walk around and pose gracefully with heels, you could leave them on as well as the stockings. | ||
| − | #*Try wearing a pair of stockings one size too large, with a garter belt to keep them on. This gives you more freedom of movement during your striptease.<ref>http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/1010627/striptease</ref> | + | #*Try wearing a pair of stockings one size too large, with a garter belt to keep them on. This gives you more freedom of movement during your striptease.<ref name="rf4">http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/1010627/striptease</ref> |
| − | #Remove your bra. Tug at the straps of your bra throughout the striptease, to get your partner excited. When you're finally ready to remove it, turn your back to your partner, and unhook the bra. Let it drop to your floor, then turn around to reveal your breasts.<ref | + | #Remove your bra. Tug at the straps of your bra throughout the striptease, to get your partner excited. When you're finally ready to remove it, turn your back to your partner, and unhook the bra. Let it drop to your floor, then turn around to reveal your breasts.<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | #Take off your panties. If you have an opportunity to prepare in advance, pick a sexy pair or lacy panties or a thong, but don't pick something so tight that it leaves marks.<ref | + | #Take off your panties. If you have an opportunity to prepare in advance, pick a sexy pair or lacy panties or a thong, but don't pick something so tight that it leaves marks.<ref name="rf4" /> Try slipping them off while standing with your legs straight, or lay on your back and pull them up to your feet, where you can flick them off. |
#*If you're wearing a sexy garter belt, wear your panties over it, so you can keep your garter belt on. | #*If you're wearing a sexy garter belt, wear your panties over it, so you can keep your garter belt on. | ||
===Removing Your Own Clothes (for Men)=== | ===Removing Your Own Clothes (for Men)=== | ||
| − | #Set the mood. If you enjoy more serious seduction, select a dimly lit room, or use candles and lamps instead of overhead lighting. If you want something more fun and lighthearted, keep things more brightly lit and put on some music with a beat.<ref>http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/seduce-her-with-a-strip-tease</ref> | + | #Set the mood. If you enjoy more serious seduction, select a dimly lit room, or use candles and lamps instead of overhead lighting. If you want something more fun and lighthearted, keep things more brightly lit and put on some music with a beat.<ref name="rf5">http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/seduce-her-with-a-strip-tease</ref> |
| − | #*Men's clothing options are often less varied than women's. You can strip from an ordinary outfit, but if you want something more unique, try finding props or costumes that fit a masculine theme, such as cowboy or policeman.<ref | + | #*Men's clothing options are often less varied than women's. You can strip from an ordinary outfit, but if you want something more unique, try finding props or costumes that fit a masculine theme, such as cowboy or policeman.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | #Dance only if you're comfortable. If you know how to dance sexily, you can show your sexual partner some moves between items of clothing, or even while you're removing one. If you aren't a dance floor god, however, stick with the occasional hip sway, and turn occasionally to give your partner a view from a different angle.<ref>http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_100/127b_love_tip.html</ref> | + | #Dance only if you're comfortable. If you know how to dance sexily, you can show your sexual partner some moves between items of clothing, or even while you're removing one. If you aren't a dance floor god, however, stick with the occasional hip sway, and turn occasionally to give your partner a view from a different angle.<ref name="rf6">http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_100/127b_love_tip.html</ref> |
#Pull off your shoes and socks. Men's shoes and socks don't tend toward the sexy side, so get rid of these before you get into the swing of things. Toss these aside, somewhere out of the way. | #Pull off your shoes and socks. Men's shoes and socks don't tend toward the sexy side, so get rid of these before you get into the swing of things. Toss these aside, somewhere out of the way. | ||
#Yank off your tie. If you're wearing a tie, untie it and toss it away, or at your partner, quickly and aggressively. While you can go for the slow, sensuous striptease if you're comfortable with it, most men may prefer a more energetic, aggressive style. | #Yank off your tie. If you're wearing a tie, untie it and toss it away, or at your partner, quickly and aggressively. While you can go for the slow, sensuous striptease if you're comfortable with it, most men may prefer a more energetic, aggressive style. | ||
| − | #Grab a shirt or jumper by the collar and yank it over your head. Pull the shirt over your head quickly, then yank it off your arms and throw it to the side or at your partner.<ref>http://www.thefrisky.com/2014-02-04/taking-it-off-a-guide-for-men-on-how-to-dress-and-undress-for-maximum-sex-appeal/</ref> Alternatively, you can grab the shirt by the lower hem instead of the collar, then use the same motion. | + | #Grab a shirt or jumper by the collar and yank it over your head. Pull the shirt over your head quickly, then yank it off your arms and throw it to the side or at your partner.<ref name="rf7">http://www.thefrisky.com/2014-02-04/taking-it-off-a-guide-for-men-on-how-to-dress-and-undress-for-maximum-sex-appeal/</ref> Alternatively, you can grab the shirt by the lower hem instead of the collar, then use the same motion. |
#Unbutton button-up shirts, but leave them on until later. If you're wearing a button up shirt, unbutton it from top to bottom while keeping eye contact with your partner. Leave it on until after you've removed your trousers, to give your partner something else to look forward to, or keep it on if your partner likes the "shirt half on" look. | #Unbutton button-up shirts, but leave them on until later. If you're wearing a button up shirt, unbutton it from top to bottom while keeping eye contact with your partner. Leave it on until after you've removed your trousers, to give your partner something else to look forward to, or keep it on if your partner likes the "shirt half on" look. | ||
#Take off your trousers. Pull off your belt, then step out of them one leg at a time. Take this slowly, to avoid getting your foot caught and reducing the sexiness considerably. | #Take off your trousers. Pull off your belt, then step out of them one leg at a time. Take this slowly, to avoid getting your foot caught and reducing the sexiness considerably. | ||
