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#Draw him close to you. If you are holding hands, you can pull him that way. You might also place a hand on his hip, or gently tug his shirt. | #Draw him close to you. If you are holding hands, you can pull him that way. You might also place a hand on his hip, or gently tug his shirt. | ||
#Wait for it. Let the anticipation build for a moment, your body lightly touching his. Look at his face to gauge how he is feeling.<ref name="rf18296">http://www.liesyoungwomenbelieve.com/11-questions-to-ask-before-you-hug-him-or-let-him-hug-you</ref> Maybe take his hand, or put a hand on his waist. | #Wait for it. Let the anticipation build for a moment, your body lightly touching his. Look at his face to gauge how he is feeling.<ref name="rf18296">http://www.liesyoungwomenbelieve.com/11-questions-to-ask-before-you-hug-him-or-let-him-hug-you</ref> Maybe take his hand, or put a hand on his waist. | ||
| − | #Wrap your arms around him firmly. Breathe, and relax into his body. You might lean your head against his chest or shoulder, or move one of your hands down to hold one of his. Stay in this position for a while, enjoying the closeness. Feel his breathing. Listen for his heartbeat. Relax into the moment. Don’t feel any pressure to speak—your body will speak for you.<ref name="rf18294" /> | + | #Wrap your arms around him firmly. Breathe, and relax into his body. You might lean your head against his chest or shoulder, or move one of your hands down to hold one of his. Stay in this position for a while, enjoying the closeness. Feel his breathing. Listen for his heartbeat. Relax into the moment. Don’t feel any pressure to speak—your body will speak for you.<ref name="rf18294" />[[file: Kipkis.com-romantically-hug-a-guy.jpg|center|thumb|500px|Image: WikiHow]] |
#*It’s up to you whether or not to rub his back with your hands. A gentle back rub can feel nice, but if you want to comfort someone or make him feel safe, sometimes it’s best just to hold him. | #*It’s up to you whether or not to rub his back with your hands. A gentle back rub can feel nice, but if you want to comfort someone or make him feel safe, sometimes it’s best just to hold him. | ||
#Take a deep breath and exhale when you are ready to break the hug. Squeeze him gently, and lean back. Grab his hand as you break apart, and give that a light squeeze as well before letting go. Look into his eyes, and give him your most affectionate, trusting smile. | #Take a deep breath and exhale when you are ready to break the hug. Squeeze him gently, and lean back. Grab his hand as you break apart, and give that a light squeeze as well before letting go. Look into his eyes, and give him your most affectionate, trusting smile. | ||
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=== Hugging Passionately === | === Hugging Passionately === | ||
#Set the mood first. A passionate hug shouldn’t come out of nowhere. Flirt with him first. Make it clear you are interested in him. | #Set the mood first. A passionate hug shouldn’t come out of nowhere. Flirt with him first. Make it clear you are interested in him. | ||
