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===Responding to Thank You in Informal Situations=== | ===Responding to Thank You in Informal Situations=== | ||
| − | #Respond with “you’re welcome.” This is one of the most obvious and widely used responses to “thank you.” It conveys that you accept their gratitude.<ref>http://www.chicagonow.com/raising-world-citizens/2015/01/how-many-different-ways-can-you-say-you-are-welcome/</ref> | + | #Respond with “you’re welcome.” This is one of the most obvious and widely used responses to “thank you.” It conveys that you accept their gratitude.<ref name="rf1">http://www.chicagonow.com/raising-world-citizens/2015/01/how-many-different-ways-can-you-say-you-are-welcome/</ref> |
| − | #* Avoid saying “you’re welcome” in a sarcastic tone. Unless you want to convey that you didn’t really appreciate doing the job for someone or don’t appreciate them in general, it is best to avoid a sarcastic tone.<ref>https://www.buzzfeed.com/danieldalton/thank-you-thank-you-thank-you?utm_term=.xnqA77Kba#.kxGQKKvwj</ref> | + | #* Avoid saying “you’re welcome” in a sarcastic tone. Unless you want to convey that you didn’t really appreciate doing the job for someone or don’t appreciate them in general, it is best to avoid a sarcastic tone.<ref name="rf2">https://www.buzzfeed.com/danieldalton/thank-you-thank-you-thank-you?utm_term=.xnqA77Kba#.kxGQKKvwj</ref> |
| − | #Say “thank you!” This conveys that you are also grateful for their contributions. Responding with a “thank you” conveys a reciprocal sense of gratitude. However, avoid repeating it multiple times in the same conversation. One thank you for each person in the conversation will do just fine.<ref | + | #Say “thank you!” This conveys that you are also grateful for their contributions. Responding with a “thank you” conveys a reciprocal sense of gratitude. However, avoid repeating it multiple times in the same conversation. One thank you for each person in the conversation will do just fine.<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | #Say “It’s my pleasure.” This conveys a sense of enjoyment in the act of doing something for others. It can be heard at five star hotels but could be used more widely.<ref | + | #Say “It’s my pleasure.” This conveys a sense of enjoyment in the act of doing something for others. It can be heard at five star hotels but could be used more widely.<ref name="rf1" /> |
#*For instance, if a friend says, “Thanks so much for making this delicious meal!” You might respond by saying, “It’s my pleasure.” This conveys your enjoyment of cooking for for others. | #*For instance, if a friend says, “Thanks so much for making this delicious meal!” You might respond by saying, “It’s my pleasure.” This conveys your enjoyment of cooking for for others. | ||
| − | #Tell them, “I know you’d do the same for me.” This conveys that you have a reciprocal relationship where you do each other favors out of good will. It also communicates confidence in your ability to help and activates the reciprocity of the partner.<ref>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/adam-grant/pay-it-forward_b_4270340.html</ref> | + | #Tell them, “I know you’d do the same for me.” This conveys that you have a reciprocal relationship where you do each other favors out of good will. It also communicates confidence in your ability to help and activates the reciprocity of the partner.<ref name="rf3">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/adam-grant/pay-it-forward_b_4270340.html</ref> |
#*For instance, if your friend says, “Thanks for helping me move into my new apartment this weekend. I don’t know what I would have done without you!” You might reply, “I know you’d do the same for me.” This conveys an understanding that you have a great friendship built on reciprocity. | #*For instance, if your friend says, “Thanks for helping me move into my new apartment this weekend. I don’t know what I would have done without you!” You might reply, “I know you’d do the same for me.” This conveys an understanding that you have a great friendship built on reciprocity. | ||
| − | #Say "no problem." This is a common response but should be used sparingly, especially in a business setting.<ref>http://www.influencepeople.biz/2013/11/correct-ways-to-respond-to-thanks.html</ref> It conveys that what you did was no big deal. This can be fine in certain situations but can also diminish the relationship building opportunity of the interaction.<ref | + | #Say "no problem." This is a common response but should be used sparingly, especially in a business setting.<ref name="rf4">http://www.influencepeople.biz/2013/11/correct-ways-to-respond-to-thanks.html</ref> It conveys that what you did was no big deal. This can be fine in certain situations but can also diminish the relationship building opportunity of the interaction.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#*For instance, if your friend says “thank you” for a small act like grabbing something out of the trunk of the car, you might say “no problem.” | #*For instance, if your friend says “thank you” for a small act like grabbing something out of the trunk of the car, you might say “no problem.” | ||
| − | #*Avoid saying “no problem” in a dismissive tone. This conveys that you didn’t really put any work into whatever it is that you are being thanked for. Your friend or business partner will feel like your relationship is not important.<ref | + | #*Avoid saying “no problem” in a dismissive tone. This conveys that you didn’t really put any work into whatever it is that you are being thanked for. Your friend or business partner will feel like your relationship is not important.<ref name="rf2" /> |
#Choose a casual response. If you are replying to gratitude in casual settings or relationships, there are a variety of phrases to choose from. If you are responding to expressions of gratitude for very small things and a you need a quick response, these phrases may be appropriate. | #Choose a casual response. If you are replying to gratitude in casual settings or relationships, there are a variety of phrases to choose from. If you are responding to expressions of gratitude for very small things and a you need a quick response, these phrases may be appropriate. | ||
#*Say "it's alright". This phrase is best used in moderation. It can be used in situations where "thank you" is being offered for very small or petty things. Like “no problem,” it should not be said in a sarcastic or dismissive tone. | #*Say "it's alright". This phrase is best used in moderation. It can be used in situations where "thank you" is being offered for very small or petty things. Like “no problem,” it should not be said in a sarcastic or dismissive tone. | ||
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===Responding to Thank You at Work=== | ===Responding to Thank You at Work=== | ||
#Offer sincere replies in a business setting. In business meetings and relationships, you should avoid casual replies and show your sincerity when responding to “thank you.” | #Offer sincere replies in a business setting. In business meetings and relationships, you should avoid casual replies and show your sincerity when responding to “thank you.” | ||
| − | #*Avoid using casual replies in a business setting. For instance, you should avoid phrases like “no problem,” “anytime,” and “it’s alright” when replying to a client or customer.<ref>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/diane-gottsman/business-etiquette-the-co_b_6017462.html</ref> | + | #*Avoid using casual replies in a business setting. For instance, you should avoid phrases like “no problem,” “anytime,” and “it’s alright” when replying to a client or customer.<ref name="rf5">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/diane-gottsman/business-etiquette-the-co_b_6017462.html</ref> |
| − | #*Use a warm and sincere tone when replying to “thank you.”<ref | + | #*Use a warm and sincere tone when replying to “thank you.”<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | #Make people feel special. When replying to “thank you,” it is best to offer a response that makes them feel that your relationship with them is special and unique.<ref | + | #Make people feel special. When replying to “thank you,” it is best to offer a response that makes them feel that your relationship with them is special and unique.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#*For instance, you might say, “That’s part of the complete commitment to service that you can expect when you do business with me.” | #*For instance, you might say, “That’s part of the complete commitment to service that you can expect when you do business with me.” | ||
#*Try saying, “That’s what good business partners do for one another. Thanks for doing business with us.” | #*Try saying, “That’s what good business partners do for one another. Thanks for doing business with us.” | ||
| − | #Say “You’re very welcome.” This is a classic response and keeps things simple.<ref | + | #Say “You’re very welcome.” This is a classic response and keeps things simple.<ref name="rf5" /> |
#*For instance, when a partner says “Thanks for writing up the contract,” you can simply say, “you’re very welcome.” | #*For instance, when a partner says “Thanks for writing up the contract,” you can simply say, “you’re very welcome.” | ||
#Offer a warm reply to a customer or client. When dealing with a customer or client, you want to convey your appreciation for their business. | #Offer a warm reply to a customer or client. When dealing with a customer or client, you want to convey your appreciation for their business. | ||
| − | #*Tell your customer or client, “We appreciate your business.” Use a sincere and warm tone. This tells the customer that you are grateful for their business.<ref | + | #*Tell your customer or client, “We appreciate your business.” Use a sincere and warm tone. This tells the customer that you are grateful for their business.<ref name="rf5" /> |
#*Reply, “I’m happy to help.” This tells the customer that you enjoy your job and are keen to help them. If you are serving a customer in a retail store and they “thank you” for showing them the options for a particular product, you could say, “I’m happy to help.” | #*Reply, “I’m happy to help.” This tells the customer that you enjoy your job and are keen to help them. If you are serving a customer in a retail store and they “thank you” for showing them the options for a particular product, you could say, “I’m happy to help.” | ||
===Responding to Thank You Via Email or Text=== | ===Responding to Thank You Via Email or Text=== | ||
#Reply to thank you emails in a way that fits your personality and audience. There is no standard for replying to “thank you” in an email. Your response should fit the expectations of your audience and your personality. | #Reply to thank you emails in a way that fits your personality and audience. There is no standard for replying to “thank you” in an email. Your response should fit the expectations of your audience and your personality. | ||
| − | #*Use email in a way that fits your personality. If you are a chatty or outgoing person, go ahead and say “you’re welcome” or “it’s my pleasure” in response to a “thank you” email or text message.<ref>https://www.businessemailetiquette.com/thank-you-youre-welcome-thank-you-youre-welcome/</ref> | + | #*Use email in a way that fits your personality. If you are a chatty or outgoing person, go ahead and say “you’re welcome” or “it’s my pleasure” in response to a “thank you” email or text message.<ref name="rf6">https://www.businessemailetiquette.com/thank-you-youre-welcome-thank-you-youre-welcome/</ref> |
| − | #*Consider your audience when replying via email or text. Younger audiences might not expect a reply to an email or text saying “thank you.” Older people often have different expectations for etiquette, and may very well appreciate a reply such as “you’re welcome.”<ref>http://bits.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/03/10/etiquette-redefined-in-the-digital-age/</ref> | + | #*Consider your audience when replying via email or text. Younger audiences might not expect a reply to an email or text saying “thank you.” Older people often have different expectations for etiquette, and may very well appreciate a reply such as “you’re welcome.”<ref name="rf7">http://bits.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/03/10/etiquette-redefined-in-the-digital-age/</ref> |
| − | #Responding to a “thank you” email is considered discretionary. Consider your personality and your audience. If you are a chatty person in face to face conversations, it may be best to respond to a “thank you” email. However, if you are not very outgoing, you can probably get away without a response.<ref | + | #Responding to a “thank you” email is considered discretionary. Consider your personality and your audience. If you are a chatty person in face to face conversations, it may be best to respond to a “thank you” email. However, if you are not very outgoing, you can probably get away without a response.<ref name="rf6" /> |
| − | #Respond to “thank you” emails when you want to continue the conversation. You can write, “you’re welcome” and then move on to the next conversation topic.<ref | + | #Respond to “thank you” emails when you want to continue the conversation. You can write, “you’re welcome” and then move on to the next conversation topic.<ref name="rf6" /> |
| − | #*You may want to respond to the “thank you” email if there is also a question requiring a response in the email. In this case, you can say “you’re welcome” and then answer their question.<ref | + | #*You may want to respond to the “thank you” email if there is also a question requiring a response in the email. In this case, you can say “you’re welcome” and then answer their question.<ref name="rf6" /> |
| − | #*You may want to respond to the “thank you” email if there was a specific comment in it that you wanted to address. In this case, you could say “you’re welcome” and then address the comment that you wanted to talk about to continue the conversation.<ref | + | #*You may want to respond to the “thank you” email if there was a specific comment in it that you wanted to address. In this case, you could say “you’re welcome” and then address the comment that you wanted to talk about to continue the conversation.<ref name="rf6" /> |
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