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| − | Suicide is a leading cause of death in the United States, with 37,500 suicides recorded in 2010. Someone in America commits suicide, on average, every 13 minutes.<ref>http://healthresearchfunding.org/many-people-commit-suicide-year/</ref> Suicide, however, is preventable. People who are considering suicide often show signs that they are at risk before an attempt, and these instructions will help you recognize the warning signs of suicide and take action to prevent it. '''If you or someone you know is suicidal, or in the act of attempting suicide, it's important to get that person hospitalized immediately.''' | + | Suicide is a leading cause of death in the United States, with 37,500 suicides recorded in 2010. Someone in America commits suicide, on average, every 13 minutes.<ref name="rf1">http://healthresearchfunding.org/many-people-commit-suicide-year/</ref> Suicide, however, is preventable. People who are considering suicide often show signs that they are at risk before an attempt, and these instructions will help you recognize the warning signs of suicide and take action to prevent it. '''If you or someone you know is suicidal, or in the act of attempting suicide, it's important to get that person hospitalized immediately.''' |
| − | *If you are in the US, you can call 911 for emergency or reach a suicide hotline by calling 800-SUICIDE (800-784-2433) or 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255).<ref>http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/depression-recognizing-signs-of-suicide</ref> | + | *If you are in the US, you can call 911 for emergency or reach a suicide hotline by calling 800-SUICIDE (800-784-2433) or 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255).<ref name="rf2">http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/depression-recognizing-signs-of-suicide</ref> |
| − | *If you are in the UK, call 999 for emergency or 08457 90 90 90 to reach a suicide hotline.<ref>http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Suicide/Pages/Getting-help.aspx</ref> | + | *If you are in the UK, call 999 for emergency or 08457 90 90 90 to reach a suicide hotline.<ref name="rf3">http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Suicide/Pages/Getting-help.aspx</ref> |
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== Steps == | == Steps == | ||
===Recognizing Mental and Emotional Warning Signs=== | ===Recognizing Mental and Emotional Warning Signs=== | ||
| − | #Recognize suicidal thought patterns. There are a number of thought patterns that are often present among those who attempt suicide.<ref>http://www.crisiscenter.com/content/51/Suicide-Warning-Signs-and-Symptoms.aspx</ref> If someone tells you they are experiencing one or more of these issues, this may be a matter for concern. For example: | + | #Recognize suicidal thought patterns. There are a number of thought patterns that are often present among those who attempt suicide.<ref name="rf4">http://www.crisiscenter.com/content/51/Suicide-Warning-Signs-and-Symptoms.aspx</ref> If someone tells you they are experiencing one or more of these issues, this may be a matter for concern. For example: |
#*Suicidal individuals frequently dwell on a thought obsessively, unable to stop thinking about it. | #*Suicidal individuals frequently dwell on a thought obsessively, unable to stop thinking about it. | ||
#*Suicidal individuals often believe there is no hope for them, and no way to end the pain other than killing themselves. | #*Suicidal individuals often believe there is no hope for them, and no way to end the pain other than killing themselves. | ||
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#*Suicidal individuals often describe the sensation that their brain is in a fog, or have difficulty concentrating. | #*Suicidal individuals often describe the sensation that their brain is in a fog, or have difficulty concentrating. | ||
#Recognize suicidal emotions. Similarly, suicidal individuals frequently experience troubled emotional states that can lead them to drastic actions. For example: | #Recognize suicidal emotions. Similarly, suicidal individuals frequently experience troubled emotional states that can lead them to drastic actions. For example: | ||
| − | #*Suicidal people often suffer from extreme mood swings.<ref | + | #*Suicidal people often suffer from extreme mood swings.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #*Suicidal individuals often experience extreme anger, rage, or vengeful feelings.<ref>http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention/suicide-prevention-studies/warning-signs-of-suicide.shtml</ref> | + | #*Suicidal individuals often experience extreme anger, rage, or vengeful feelings.<ref name="rf5">http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention/suicide-prevention-studies/warning-signs-of-suicide.shtml</ref> |
| − | #*Suicidal people often suffer from high levels of anxiety.<ref | + | #*Suicidal people often suffer from high levels of anxiety.<ref name="rf4" /> They are also frequently irritable.<ref name="rf6">https://www.afsp.org/preventing-suicide/suicide-warning-signs</ref> |
| − | #*Suicidal people often experience strong feelings of guilt or shame, or the sense that they are a burden to others.<ref | + | #*Suicidal people often experience strong feelings of guilt or shame, or the sense that they are a burden to others.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #*Suicidal people often experience a sense of loneliness or isolation, even when among other people,<ref | + | #*Suicidal people often experience a sense of loneliness or isolation, even when among other people,<ref name="rf4" /> and may also exhibit signs of shame or humiliation.<ref name="rf6" /> |
| − | #Recognize verbal warnings. There are many verbal cues that might signify that someone may be experiencing these types of distress and may be planning to take their own life. For example, if someone talks a lot about dying, this may be a warning sign if it's not something that person normally would do.<ref | + | #Recognize verbal warnings. There are many verbal cues that might signify that someone may be experiencing these types of distress and may be planning to take their own life. For example, if someone talks a lot about dying, this may be a warning sign if it's not something that person normally would do.<ref name="rf5" /> There are also many other verbal cues to look out for, such as a person making any of the statements below.<ref name="rf4" /><ref name="rf7">http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2007/10/08/common-signs-of-someone-who-may-be-suicidal/</ref><ref name="rf8">http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/suicide/basics/symptoms/con-20033954</ref> |
#*“It’s just not worth it,” “Life isn’t worth living,” or “It doesn’t matter anymore.” | #*“It’s just not worth it,” “Life isn’t worth living,” or “It doesn’t matter anymore.” | ||
#*“They won't have me around to hurt anymore.” | #*“They won't have me around to hurt anymore.” | ||
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#*“I’d be better off dead,” or “I wish I was never born.” | #*“I’d be better off dead,” or “I wish I was never born.” | ||
#Beware of sudden improvement. Keep in mind that the highest potential for suicide is not necessarily when a person appears to have hit rock bottom, but may instead be when they appear to be getting better. | #Beware of sudden improvement. Keep in mind that the highest potential for suicide is not necessarily when a person appears to have hit rock bottom, but may instead be when they appear to be getting better. | ||
| − | #*A sudden improvement in mood may indicate that the individual has made peace with the decision to end their life, and perhaps even has a plan in place for doing so.<ref>http://my.clevelandclinic.org/services/neurological_institute/center-for-behavorial-health/patient-education/hic-recognizing-suicidal-behavior</ref> | + | #*A sudden improvement in mood may indicate that the individual has made peace with the decision to end their life, and perhaps even has a plan in place for doing so.<ref name="rf9">http://my.clevelandclinic.org/services/neurological_institute/center-for-behavorial-health/patient-education/hic-recognizing-suicidal-behavior</ref> |
#*As such, if someone has been showing signs of depression or suicidal feelings and suddenly seems much happier, you should take preventative steps without delay. | #*As such, if someone has been showing signs of depression or suicidal feelings and suddenly seems much happier, you should take preventative steps without delay. | ||
===Recognizing Behavioral Warning Signs=== | ===Recognizing Behavioral Warning Signs=== | ||
| − | #Look for signs of "tying up loose ends." People planning suicide may take measures to settle their affairs before proceeding.<ref>http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/depression-recognizing-signs-of-suicide </ref> This is a major warning sign, since someone tying up loose ends probably has a suicide plan in place. Someone who is suicidal may do one or more of these to get ready: | + | #Look for signs of "tying up loose ends." People planning suicide may take measures to settle their affairs before proceeding.<ref name="rf10">http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/depression-recognizing-signs-of-suicide </ref> This is a major warning sign, since someone tying up loose ends probably has a suicide plan in place. Someone who is suicidal may do one or more of these to get ready: |
| − | #*Give away their prized possessions.<ref | + | #*Give away their prized possessions.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #*Make financial arrangements, such as suddenly writing a will.<ref | + | #*Make financial arrangements, such as suddenly writing a will.<ref name="rf7" /> |
| − | #*Say goodbye to loved ones. A person that is considering suicide may suddenly make a point of saying a heartfelt goodbye at odd times.<ref | + | #*Say goodbye to loved ones. A person that is considering suicide may suddenly make a point of saying a heartfelt goodbye at odd times.<ref name="rf8" /> |
#Look out for reckless, dangerous behavior. Since suicidal people feel no reason to live, they may take risks that could lead to death, like driving recklessly or while impaired. Here are few potential signs to look out for: | #Look out for reckless, dangerous behavior. Since suicidal people feel no reason to live, they may take risks that could lead to death, like driving recklessly or while impaired. Here are few potential signs to look out for: | ||
| − | #*Excessive use of drugs (legal or illegal) and alcohol.<ref | + | #*Excessive use of drugs (legal or illegal) and alcohol.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #*Reckless driving, such as driving too fast or under the influence.<ref | + | #*Reckless driving, such as driving too fast or under the influence.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #*Unprotected sex, often with multiple partners.<ref | + | #*Unprotected sex, often with multiple partners.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #Look for the means to commit suicide. It's a good idea to investigate whether the person has recently purchased a gun,<ref | + | #Look for the means to commit suicide. It's a good idea to investigate whether the person has recently purchased a gun,<ref name="rf7" /> or might be stockpiling legal or illegal pills.<ref name="rf5" /> |
#*If someone seems to be collecting medication or purchasing new weapons out of the blue, it's important to act quickly. Once their plan is in place the person could commit suicide at any time. | #*If someone seems to be collecting medication or purchasing new weapons out of the blue, it's important to act quickly. Once their plan is in place the person could commit suicide at any time. | ||
| − | #Be aware of social withdrawal. Avoiding friends, family, or coworkers is common among suicidal individuals, who often quietly withdraw from normal social interactions.<ref | + | #Be aware of social withdrawal. Avoiding friends, family, or coworkers is common among suicidal individuals, who often quietly withdraw from normal social interactions.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#*Take action, rather than just listening to someone who says "I just want to be left alone." | #*Take action, rather than just listening to someone who says "I just want to be left alone." | ||
#Note any extreme changes in routine. If someone suddenly stops going to their weekly pick up basketball games or their favorite game nights this could be a warning sign. | #Note any extreme changes in routine. If someone suddenly stops going to their weekly pick up basketball games or their favorite game nights this could be a warning sign. | ||
| − | #*Skipping out on going out or taking part in activities they normally enjoy could indicate that someone is feeling unhappy, depressed, or possibly suicidal.<ref | + | #*Skipping out on going out or taking part in activities they normally enjoy could indicate that someone is feeling unhappy, depressed, or possibly suicidal.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#Be aware of unusually lethargic behavior. Suicidal, depressed individuals often have little energy for basic mental and physical tasks. In particular, be on the lookout for: | #Be aware of unusually lethargic behavior. Suicidal, depressed individuals often have little energy for basic mental and physical tasks. In particular, be on the lookout for: | ||
| − | #*Unusual difficulty making ordinary decisions.<ref | + | #*Unusual difficulty making ordinary decisions.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #*Loss of interest in sex.<ref | + | #*Loss of interest in sex.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #*General lack of energy, behaviors like staying in bed all day.<ref | + | #*General lack of energy, behaviors like staying in bed all day.<ref name="rf4" /> |
| − | #Watch for warning signs in teens. If the person in question is a teenager, watch for additional common warning signs and possible triggers for teens.<ref | + | #Watch for warning signs in teens. If the person in question is a teenager, watch for additional common warning signs and possible triggers for teens.<ref name="rf4" /><ref name="rf11">http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=55145</ref> For example: |
#*The teen is in trouble with their family or the law. | #*The teen is in trouble with their family or the law. | ||
#*Life circumstances like a recent breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend, not getting into their college of choice, or the loss of a close friend. | #*Life circumstances like a recent breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend, not getting into their college of choice, or the loss of a close friend. | ||
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===Recognizing the Risk Factors for Suicide=== | ===Recognizing the Risk Factors for Suicide=== | ||
#Consider life history and current circumstances. An individual's experiences, both recent and distant, can also make one more likely to attempt suicide. | #Consider life history and current circumstances. An individual's experiences, both recent and distant, can also make one more likely to attempt suicide. | ||
| − | #*The death of a loved one, the loss of a job, a serious illness (especially involving chronic pain), bullying, and other highly stressful life events can act as triggers for suicide and put someone at greater risk.<ref>http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/key-research-findings</ref> | + | #*The death of a loved one, the loss of a job, a serious illness (especially involving chronic pain), bullying, and other highly stressful life events can act as triggers for suicide and put someone at greater risk.<ref name="rf12">http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/key-research-findings</ref> |
| − | #*Of particular concern is whether a person has tried to commit suicide before. Someone who has previously attempted suicide is likely to try again. In fact, one fifth of the people who die by suicide have made a previous attempt.<ref | + | #*Of particular concern is whether a person has tried to commit suicide before. Someone who has previously attempted suicide is likely to try again. In fact, one fifth of the people who die by suicide have made a previous attempt.<ref name="rf12" /> |
| − | #*A history of physical or sexual abuse also puts one at a higher risk of suicide.<ref>http://psychcentral.com/news/2008/08/04/suicide-risk-among-abused-children/2685.html</ref> | + | #*A history of physical or sexual abuse also puts one at a higher risk of suicide.<ref name="rf13">http://psychcentral.com/news/2008/08/04/suicide-risk-among-abused-children/2685.html</ref> |
#Consider the individual's mental health. The presence of an underlying mental health disorder, such as bipolar disorder, major depression, or schizophrenia, or a history of such disorders, is a major risk factor. In fact, 90 percent of suicide cases are linked to depression or another mental illness, and 66 percent of people who think seriously about suicide have a mental disorder of some kind. | #Consider the individual's mental health. The presence of an underlying mental health disorder, such as bipolar disorder, major depression, or schizophrenia, or a history of such disorders, is a major risk factor. In fact, 90 percent of suicide cases are linked to depression or another mental illness, and 66 percent of people who think seriously about suicide have a mental disorder of some kind. | ||
#*Disorders characterized by anxiety or agitation (e.g., post-traumatic stress disorder) and poor impulse-control (e.g., bipolar disorder, conduct disorders, substance disorders) are the most likely risk factors for making a suicide plan and a suicide attempt. | #*Disorders characterized by anxiety or agitation (e.g., post-traumatic stress disorder) and poor impulse-control (e.g., bipolar disorder, conduct disorders, substance disorders) are the most likely risk factors for making a suicide plan and a suicide attempt. | ||
| − | #*The symptoms of mental illnesses that raise the risk of suicide include intense anxiety, panic attacks, desperation, hopelessness, feeling that one is a burden, loss of interest and pleasure, and delusional thinking.<ref | + | #*The symptoms of mental illnesses that raise the risk of suicide include intense anxiety, panic attacks, desperation, hopelessness, feeling that one is a burden, loss of interest and pleasure, and delusional thinking.<ref name="rf12" /> |
| − | #*While the statistical relationship between suicide and depression is a complicated one, the majority of people who die from a suicide attempt have major depression.<ref> http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/key-research-findings</ref> | + | #*While the statistical relationship between suicide and depression is a complicated one, the majority of people who die from a suicide attempt have major depression.<ref name="rf14"> http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/key-research-findings</ref> |
#*People with more than one mental health problem are at especially high risk of suicide. Having two mental disorders nearly doubles the risk of suicide, and three nearly triples the risk of suicide when compared to people who endure one mental disorder. | #*People with more than one mental health problem are at especially high risk of suicide. Having two mental disorders nearly doubles the risk of suicide, and three nearly triples the risk of suicide when compared to people who endure one mental disorder. | ||
#Investigate any family history of suicide. Scientists aren't certain yet whether the central cause is environment, heredity, or a combination of both, but suicide does seem to run in families. | #Investigate any family history of suicide. Scientists aren't certain yet whether the central cause is environment, heredity, or a combination of both, but suicide does seem to run in families. | ||
| − | #*At least some research suggests there is a genetic cause for this relationship, so even if someone was not raised by their biological parents, this may be a risk factor.<ref | + | #*At least some research suggests there is a genetic cause for this relationship, so even if someone was not raised by their biological parents, this may be a risk factor.<ref name="rf12" /> Environmental influences in one's family life also may play a role. |
#Consider the demographics of suicide. While anyone can become suicidal, statistically speaking, some social groups have higher rates of suicide than others. If someone you know may be at risk, consider the following: | #Consider the demographics of suicide. While anyone can become suicidal, statistically speaking, some social groups have higher rates of suicide than others. If someone you know may be at risk, consider the following: | ||
| − | #*Males are more likely to commit suicide. For every age group and ethnicity, the rate of suicide for males is quadruple the rate for females. In fact, men account for 79% of all suicides.<ref | + | #*Males are more likely to commit suicide. For every age group and ethnicity, the rate of suicide for males is quadruple the rate for females. In fact, men account for 79% of all suicides.<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | #*Regardless of gender, LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) individuals are four times more likely to commit suicide.<ref>http://www.suicide.org/gay-and-lesbian-suicide.html</ref> | + | #*Regardless of gender, LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) individuals are four times more likely to commit suicide.<ref name="rf15">http://www.suicide.org/gay-and-lesbian-suicide.html</ref> |
| − | #*Older people are more likely to commit suicide than young people. People between the ages of 45 and 59 have the highest suicide rate, and people older than 74 years have the second highest rate of suicide.<ref>https://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/facts-and-figures</ref> | + | #*Older people are more likely to commit suicide than young people. People between the ages of 45 and 59 have the highest suicide rate, and people older than 74 years have the second highest rate of suicide.<ref name="rf16">https://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/facts-and-figures</ref> |
#*Native Americans and Caucasians (whites) are also statistically more likely to commit suicide than other ethnic groups. | #*Native Americans and Caucasians (whites) are also statistically more likely to commit suicide than other ethnic groups. | ||
#*These trends don't mean you shouldn't be worried about someone who is not in one of these high risk groups. If the person you are concerned about displays signs of being suicidal, regardless of their gender or age, take their situation seriously. However, if someone is part of one of these groups, their risk may be higher. | #*These trends don't mean you shouldn't be worried about someone who is not in one of these high risk groups. If the person you are concerned about displays signs of being suicidal, regardless of their gender or age, take their situation seriously. However, if someone is part of one of these groups, their risk may be higher. | ||
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#Raise the issue directly. A good starting point is to say: “I've noticed you’ve been feeling really down lately, and I have been very concerned. Are you having thoughts of suicide?” | #Raise the issue directly. A good starting point is to say: “I've noticed you’ve been feeling really down lately, and I have been very concerned. Are you having thoughts of suicide?” | ||
#*If the person says yes, the next step is to ask: “Do you have a plan for suicide?” | #*If the person says yes, the next step is to ask: “Do you have a plan for suicide?” | ||
| − | #*If they answer in the affirmative, '''call 911 immediately!''' A person who has a plan needs to get help right away. Stay with the person until help arrives.<ref>http://psychcentral.com/lib/what-to-do-when-you-think-someone-is-suicidal/0007461</ref> | + | #*If they answer in the affirmative, '''call 911 immediately!''' A person who has a plan needs to get help right away. Stay with the person until help arrives.<ref name="rf17">http://psychcentral.com/lib/what-to-do-when-you-think-someone-is-suicidal/0007461</ref> |
| − | #Avoid making the situation worse. There are some things that may seem helpful to say, but actually may increase a suicidal person's guilt or shame.<ref | + | #Avoid making the situation worse. There are some things that may seem helpful to say, but actually may increase a suicidal person's guilt or shame.<ref name="rf4" /> For example, avoid the following types of comments: |
#*“Tomorrow is another day. Everything will look better then.” | #*“Tomorrow is another day. Everything will look better then.” | ||
#*“It can always be worse. You should feel lucky for everything you have.” | #*“It can always be worse. You should feel lucky for everything you have.” | ||
#*“You have so much to look forward to/You have everything going for you.” | #*“You have so much to look forward to/You have everything going for you.” | ||
#*“Don’t worry. Everything/you will be fine.” | #*“Don’t worry. Everything/you will be fine.” | ||
| − | #Avoid making statements that seem dismissive. Some types of comments can convey the idea that you don't take the person's feelings seriously.<ref | + | #Avoid making statements that seem dismissive. Some types of comments can convey the idea that you don't take the person's feelings seriously.<ref name="rf17" /> Avoid the following types of remarks: |
#*"Things aren’t that bad." | #*"Things aren’t that bad." | ||
#*“You wouldn’t hurt yourself.” | #*“You wouldn’t hurt yourself.” | ||
#*“I’ve felt overwhelmed too, and I made it through.” | #*“I’ve felt overwhelmed too, and I made it through.” | ||
| − | #Don't keep secrets. If someone confides in you that they are suicidal, do not agree to keep the matter a secret.<ref | + | #Don't keep secrets. If someone confides in you that they are suicidal, do not agree to keep the matter a secret.<ref name="rf17" /> |
#*This person needs help as soon as possible. Keeping the matter secret will only delay needed assistance. | #*This person needs help as soon as possible. Keeping the matter secret will only delay needed assistance. | ||
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#Call 911. If you believe someone is an immediate suicide risk, call 911 without delay. | #Call 911. If you believe someone is an immediate suicide risk, call 911 without delay. | ||
#Call a suicide hotline. Suicide hotlines aren't just for people who are suicidal. They also provide help for people trying to prevent another person's suicide. | #Call a suicide hotline. Suicide hotlines aren't just for people who are suicidal. They also provide help for people trying to prevent another person's suicide. | ||
| − | #*Even if you just need to know what to do, a suicide hotline can help. They can talk you through the immediate situation or direct you to take further, more serious actions. They are also connected to doctors and counselors across the nation.<ref | + | #*Even if you just need to know what to do, a suicide hotline can help. They can talk you through the immediate situation or direct you to take further, more serious actions. They are also connected to doctors and counselors across the nation.<ref name="rf17" /> |
| − | #*In the US, you can call 800-SUICIDE (800-784-2433) or 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255).<ref | + | #*In the US, you can call 800-SUICIDE (800-784-2433) or 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255).<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | #*In the UK, call 08457 90 90 90.<ref | + | #*In the UK, call 08457 90 90 90.<ref name="rf3" /> |
| − | #Refer the suicidal person to professional help. Make sure the person sees a mental health professional as soon as possible.<ref | + | #Refer the suicidal person to professional help. Make sure the person sees a mental health professional as soon as possible.<ref name="rf17" /> The suicide hotline numbers provided above can refer you to a licensed psychologist or psychiatrist, or you can find one online who specializes in this area. |
#*By being there for this person and leading him or her to qualified professional help, you can [[Prevent a Suicide|prevent a suicide]] and save a life. | #*By being there for this person and leading him or her to qualified professional help, you can [[Prevent a Suicide|prevent a suicide]] and save a life. | ||
#*Don't waste time. Sometimes preventing a suicide comes down to a matter of days or even hours, so the sooner this person can get the help they need, the better. | #*Don't waste time. Sometimes preventing a suicide comes down to a matter of days or even hours, so the sooner this person can get the help they need, the better. | ||
| − | #Notify family members. It may be helpful to contact the suicidal person's parents, guardians, or other loved ones.<ref | + | #Notify family members. It may be helpful to contact the suicidal person's parents, guardians, or other loved ones.<ref name="rf17" /> |
#*This can take some of the pressure off you, since they can be involved in the effort to stop this person from committing suicide. | #*This can take some of the pressure off you, since they can be involved in the effort to stop this person from committing suicide. | ||
#*Getting these individuals involved may also help the suicidal person see that others care about them. | #*Getting these individuals involved may also help the suicidal person see that others care about them. | ||
| − | #Remove the tools of suicide. If possible, remove any lethal items from the person's home.<ref | + | #Remove the tools of suicide. If possible, remove any lethal items from the person's home.<ref name="rf17" /> This includes firearms, drugs, or any other weapons or poisons. |
#*Be thorough. People can kill themselves with many items you wouldn't necessarily think of. | #*Be thorough. People can kill themselves with many items you wouldn't necessarily think of. | ||
#*Items like rat poison, cleaning products, and even ordinary cutlery can be used in a suicide attempt. | #*Items like rat poison, cleaning products, and even ordinary cutlery can be used in a suicide attempt. | ||
| − | #*About 25 percent of all suicides are carried out by suffocation. Usually, this means hanging. So make sure to remove items like ties, belts, ropes, and sheets.<ref | + | #*About 25 percent of all suicides are carried out by suffocation. Usually, this means hanging. So make sure to remove items like ties, belts, ropes, and sheets.<ref name="rf12" /> |
#*Let the individual know you will hold onto these items until he or she is feeling better. | #*Let the individual know you will hold onto these items until he or she is feeling better. | ||
| − | #Continue to offer support. Even after immediate danger has passed, stay engaged with the person. Someone who is depressed or feeling isolated is not likely to ask for help, so you'll need to make yourself present. Call, visit, and generally follow up with the person frequently to see how he or she is doing. Here are other ways you can provide ongoing support:<ref>http://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-prevention-helping-someone-who-is-suicidal.htm</ref> | + | #Continue to offer support. Even after immediate danger has passed, stay engaged with the person. Someone who is depressed or feeling isolated is not likely to ask for help, so you'll need to make yourself present. Call, visit, and generally follow up with the person frequently to see how he or she is doing. Here are other ways you can provide ongoing support:<ref name="rf18">http://www.helpguide.org/articles/suicide-prevention/suicide-prevention-helping-someone-who-is-suicidal.htm</ref> |
#*Make sure the person goes to their therapy appointments. Offer to drive the person there so you can be sure that he or she follows through on the appointment. | #*Make sure the person goes to their therapy appointments. Offer to drive the person there so you can be sure that he or she follows through on the appointment. | ||
#*Make sure the person takes any prescribed medication. | #*Make sure the person takes any prescribed medication. | ||
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===Dealing With Your Own Suicidal Feelings=== | ===Dealing With Your Own Suicidal Feelings=== | ||
| − | #Call 911. If you are experiencing the suicidal feelings described above and believe you are imminently at risk of committing suicide (i.e. you have a plan and the means to carry it out), call 911 immediately. You are in need of emergency help.<ref | + | #Call 911. If you are experiencing the suicidal feelings described above and believe you are imminently at risk of committing suicide (i.e. you have a plan and the means to carry it out), call 911 immediately. You are in need of emergency help.<ref name="rf8" /> |
| − | #Call a suicide hotline. While you are waiting for first-responders to arrive, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK.<ref | + | #Call a suicide hotline. While you are waiting for first-responders to arrive, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK.<ref name="rf8" /> This will help pass the time and decrease the risk until help comes. |
| − | #See a mental health professional. If you are having suicidal thoughts and feelings but do not have a plan, make an appointment with a therapist or counselor.<ref | + | #See a mental health professional. If you are having suicidal thoughts and feelings but do not have a plan, make an appointment with a therapist or counselor.<ref name="rf8" /> |
#*If your situation worsens while you await your appointment and you develop a suicide plan, call 911. | #*If your situation worsens while you await your appointment and you develop a suicide plan, call 911. | ||
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*Don't wait for someone to just walk up to you and say "I want to kill myself." Many people who are planning to commit suicide never tell anybody exactly what they're planning. If someone you know is exhibiting warning signs, don't wait for things to get worse before seeking help. | *Don't wait for someone to just walk up to you and say "I want to kill myself." Many people who are planning to commit suicide never tell anybody exactly what they're planning. If someone you know is exhibiting warning signs, don't wait for things to get worse before seeking help. | ||
*Others may only show a few subtle signs. As such, it’s important to be very observant of people at risk for suicide, such as people who have just experienced extreme trauma, people with substance abuse problems, and people with a history of mental illness, so that you can pick up on any signs they do display. | *Others may only show a few subtle signs. As such, it’s important to be very observant of people at risk for suicide, such as people who have just experienced extreme trauma, people with substance abuse problems, and people with a history of mental illness, so that you can pick up on any signs they do display. | ||
| − | *Be aware that not everyone who is contemplating suicide illustrates obvious signs or risk factors. In fact, around 25 percent of suicide victims may show no significant signs at all.<ref>http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/risk-factors-and-warning-signs</ref> | + | *Be aware that not everyone who is contemplating suicide illustrates obvious signs or risk factors. In fact, around 25 percent of suicide victims may show no significant signs at all.<ref name="rf19">http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/risk-factors-and-warning-signs</ref> |
* Please do not be harsh or condescending, or dare them to follow through in committing suicide, trying to "call their bluff" because that can push someone into actually attempt and/or complete suicide. | * Please do not be harsh or condescending, or dare them to follow through in committing suicide, trying to "call their bluff" because that can push someone into actually attempt and/or complete suicide. | ||
Also, while it appropriate to seek professional help and other good support for someone feeling suicidal, please do not gossip about him or her. Respect their dignity as they work through this difficult time. Maintaining a trustworthy rapport really can make the difference between life and death. | Also, while it appropriate to seek professional help and other good support for someone feeling suicidal, please do not gossip about him or her. Respect their dignity as they work through this difficult time. Maintaining a trustworthy rapport really can make the difference between life and death. | ||
