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===Assessing your Options === | ===Assessing your Options === | ||
| − | #Brainstorm some ideas with friends. The first thing you need to do is come up with some ideas for how you might want to celebrate your birthday. It’s a good idea to get together with a couple of your closest friends and try to brainstorm some possibilities. They know you well, and will be able to tell you if you have a really bad idea and offer some suggestions if you’re drawing a blank.<ref>http://www.seventeen.com/life/a12507/teen-birthday-party-planning-tips/</ref> | + | #Brainstorm some ideas with friends. The first thing you need to do is come up with some ideas for how you might want to celebrate your birthday. It’s a good idea to get together with a couple of your closest friends and try to brainstorm some possibilities. They know you well, and will be able to tell you if you have a really bad idea and offer some suggestions if you’re drawing a blank.<ref name="rf1">http://www.seventeen.com/life/a12507/teen-birthday-party-planning-tips/</ref> |
#*Remember you want to do something that you like, but if you going to be with a group of friends, you want everyone to have fun. | #*Remember you want to do something that you like, but if you going to be with a group of friends, you want everyone to have fun. | ||
#Run your ideas by your parents. Once you’ve come up with a few ideas, and before you get too excited, run them by your parents. They are going to be doing a fair bit of the organising and will know more than you about the costs and limitations. They might disappoint you by not seeming too enthusiastic about an enormous expensive party, but be understanding and work together with them. They really do want you to have fun! | #Run your ideas by your parents. Once you’ve come up with a few ideas, and before you get too excited, run them by your parents. They are going to be doing a fair bit of the organising and will know more than you about the costs and limitations. They might disappoint you by not seeming too enthusiastic about an enormous expensive party, but be understanding and work together with them. They really do want you to have fun! | ||
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#*If the party is at your house, decide where is going to be off limits. Your parents won't want a bunch of teens trekking through their bedroom. | #*If the party is at your house, decide where is going to be off limits. Your parents won't want a bunch of teens trekking through their bedroom. | ||
#Decide how many people you want to come. The next step is to decide how many people you want to come to celebrate your birthday. You might want to keep it small with just close friends and family, or have a big party with your whole class. What works best will depend on what kind of party you are going to have, but it’s a good idea to have a rough idea of numbers before you get too far ahead in the planning. | #Decide how many people you want to come. The next step is to decide how many people you want to come to celebrate your birthday. You might want to keep it small with just close friends and family, or have a big party with your whole class. What works best will depend on what kind of party you are going to have, but it’s a good idea to have a rough idea of numbers before you get too far ahead in the planning. | ||
| − | #*If you are keeping it small, be aware that word will travel around your class.<ref>http://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/invitations/birthday-invitation-etiquette/#page=5</ref> | + | #*If you are keeping it small, be aware that word will travel around your class.<ref name="rf2">http://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/invitations/birthday-invitation-etiquette/#page=5</ref> |
| − | #*Try not to get into an awkward situation where you are inviting everyone from your class apart from one or two people.<ref>http://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/invitations/birthday-invitation-etiquette/#page=6</ref> | + | #*Try not to get into an awkward situation where you are inviting everyone from your class apart from one or two people.<ref name="rf3">http://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/invitations/birthday-invitation-etiquette/#page=6</ref> |
#*Do you want it to be co-ed (girls and boys), all girls, or all boys? Talk it over with your parents and make sure that they approve your final decision. | #*Do you want it to be co-ed (girls and boys), all girls, or all boys? Talk it over with your parents and make sure that they approve your final decision. | ||
#Choose a date. You'll want to pick a perfect date to have your 13th birthday party on. Ideally, it should be around your real birthday, but it doesn’t have to be. Try to have your birthday party on a weekend, or at least on a Friday night. You could also hold it on a day where you don't have school. Be careful if your birthday is during summer, spring, or winter break, as some of your friends may be on vacation. | #Choose a date. You'll want to pick a perfect date to have your 13th birthday party on. Ideally, it should be around your real birthday, but it doesn’t have to be. Try to have your birthday party on a weekend, or at least on a Friday night. You could also hold it on a day where you don't have school. Be careful if your birthday is during summer, spring, or winter break, as some of your friends may be on vacation. | ||
#*It’s a good idea to check if another friend is having a party around the same time as you. You don't want to have your friends torn between going to your birthday or another person's birthday if they're on the same night. | #*It’s a good idea to check if another friend is having a party around the same time as you. You don't want to have your friends torn between going to your birthday or another person's birthday if they're on the same night. | ||
| − | #Pick a theme or activity. Now you have a good idea of the size, the date, and whether you are having your party at home or out, you can think about what theme you would like. There are almost endless possibilities here, so talk it over with friends and family and try to come up with something that will be really fun and is a bit special. A theme is a good way to tie the party together.<ref | + | #Pick a theme or activity. Now you have a good idea of the size, the date, and whether you are having your party at home or out, you can think about what theme you would like. There are almost endless possibilities here, so talk it over with friends and family and try to come up with something that will be really fun and is a bit special. A theme is a good way to tie the party together.<ref name="rf1" /> Here are just a few ideas: |
#*Rollerskating party | #*Rollerskating party | ||
#*[[Host a Teen's Birthday Slumber Party|Sleepover]] | #*[[Host a Teen's Birthday Slumber Party|Sleepover]] | ||
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===Making the First Arrangements=== | ===Making the First Arrangements=== | ||
#Book your venue. Your venue is where you will host the party. If you have decided to have a party away from home you need to book somewhere sooner rather than later to avoid disappointment. Bear in mind how many people you are inviting and make sure you are booking somewhere with enough space. Think about if you need space for dancing, and a space to put your stereo or DJ. | #Book your venue. Your venue is where you will host the party. If you have decided to have a party away from home you need to book somewhere sooner rather than later to avoid disappointment. Bear in mind how many people you are inviting and make sure you are booking somewhere with enough space. Think about if you need space for dancing, and a space to put your stereo or DJ. | ||
| − | #*Having a party at a specialist place can be easier to organise and handle for your parents than having one at home.<ref>http://www.kiwifamilies.co.nz/articles/thirteenth-birthday-party/</ref> | + | #*Having a party at a specialist place can be easier to organise and handle for your parents than having one at home.<ref name="rf4">http://www.kiwifamilies.co.nz/articles/thirteenth-birthday-party/</ref> |
#If necessary, get the tickets to the event. For some places, like an amusement park or a sports game, you will need to buy tickets. It is easiest and quickest to do this in advance, you don't want to spend ages queueing. It’s best to leave this stuff to the parents to sort out, but make sure you know what is going on and your friends know if they need to get their own tickets separately. | #If necessary, get the tickets to the event. For some places, like an amusement park or a sports game, you will need to buy tickets. It is easiest and quickest to do this in advance, you don't want to spend ages queueing. It’s best to leave this stuff to the parents to sort out, but make sure you know what is going on and your friends know if they need to get their own tickets separately. | ||
#*Sometimes you can get group tickets at a discount. | #*Sometimes you can get group tickets at a discount. | ||
#*If you going to a sports game make sure you get seats together. | #*If you going to a sports game make sure you get seats together. | ||
#Arrange transport. Once you know where and when you are going, you need to think about how everybody is going to get there and back again. Maybe you will all get a mini-bus from your house, or carpool. Again, this is something your parents will organise with your friends’ parents, but make sure everybody understands what the plans are, including you. | #Arrange transport. Once you know where and when you are going, you need to think about how everybody is going to get there and back again. Maybe you will all get a mini-bus from your house, or carpool. Again, this is something your parents will organise with your friends’ parents, but make sure everybody understands what the plans are, including you. | ||
| − | #Send out the [[Write a Birthday Invitation|invitations]]. Once the plans are well-advanced you can go ahead and send out the invitations. This is a chance for you to be a bit creative and show how much you want to share your birthday with your friends, as well as set the scene for your party.<ref> http://www.toppartyideas.com/13th-birthday-party-ideas-plan/</ref> You can either write out the invitations by hand, email them out to your guests, or tell them in person or by calling them. You could also use free services on the internet that create invitations, such as [[Make an Evite|Evite]]. | + | #Send out the [[Write a Birthday Invitation|invitations]]. Once the plans are well-advanced you can go ahead and send out the invitations. This is a chance for you to be a bit creative and show how much you want to share your birthday with your friends, as well as set the scene for your party.<ref name="rf5"> http://www.toppartyideas.com/13th-birthday-party-ideas-plan/</ref> You can either write out the invitations by hand, email them out to your guests, or tell them in person or by calling them. You could also use free services on the internet that create invitations, such as [[Make an Evite|Evite]]. |
#*It’s a good idea to ask people on the invitations to let you know if they are allergic to anything. It wouldn't be good if there was an allergic reaction at your party! | #*It’s a good idea to ask people on the invitations to let you know if they are allergic to anything. It wouldn't be good if there was an allergic reaction at your party! | ||
| − | #*Don’t forget to ask people to RSVP, and confirm whether or not they can come. This will be helpful in your planning. It will make arranging food, transport, entertainment, and anything, much easier if you know how many people are coming.<ref>http://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/invitations/birthday-invitation-etiquette/#page=12</ref> | + | #*Don’t forget to ask people to RSVP, and confirm whether or not they can come. This will be helpful in your planning. It will make arranging food, transport, entertainment, and anything, much easier if you know how many people are coming.<ref name="rf6">http://www.parents.com/fun/birthdays/invitations/birthday-invitation-etiquette/#page=12</ref> |
#*Give all the information and the venue, date and transport on the invitations. | #*Give all the information and the venue, date and transport on the invitations. | ||
===Make the Final Party Arrangements=== | ===Make the Final Party Arrangements=== | ||
| − | #Get the food. Plan what you are going to need food-wise. You don't want a bunch of hungry 13 year old teens turning up to a party with no food. Chips, candy, pretzels, pop, juice, fruit, and chocolate work great for finger food.<ref>http://www.toppartyideas.com/13th-birthday-party-ideas-plan/2/</ref> You can also have little appetizers such as sausage rolls or buffalo wings. If you're going to have your guests stay for a real meal (lunch or dinner), either order in some pizza, sushi, or Chinese food, or go out to a restaurant. | + | #Get the food. Plan what you are going to need food-wise. You don't want a bunch of hungry 13 year old teens turning up to a party with no food. Chips, candy, pretzels, pop, juice, fruit, and chocolate work great for finger food.<ref name="rf7">http://www.toppartyideas.com/13th-birthday-party-ideas-plan/2/</ref> You can also have little appetizers such as sausage rolls or buffalo wings. If you're going to have your guests stay for a real meal (lunch or dinner), either order in some pizza, sushi, or Chinese food, or go out to a restaurant. |
#*Be sure you take into account any dietary needs of your guests. | #*Be sure you take into account any dietary needs of your guests. | ||
#*You can tie the food into your theme. | #*You can tie the food into your theme. | ||
#*Don't forget the cake! | #*Don't forget the cake! | ||
| − | #Decorate your venue. [[Decorate a Room for a Party|Decorating your party space]] isn't essential. It's more important if you're having a theme party, but it's always nice to have some little decorations, even if it's only a couple balloons. You’re decorations will depend on your venue.<ref>http://www.toppartyideas.com/13th-birthday-party-ideas-plan/</ref> Decorate as little or as much as you want (and as much as you can take financially). | + | #Decorate your venue. [[Decorate a Room for a Party|Decorating your party space]] isn't essential. It's more important if you're having a theme party, but it's always nice to have some little decorations, even if it's only a couple balloons. You’re decorations will depend on your venue.<ref name="rf8">http://www.toppartyideas.com/13th-birthday-party-ideas-plan/</ref> Decorate as little or as much as you want (and as much as you can take financially). |
#*It’s great to have decorations that go with your theme. | #*It’s great to have decorations that go with your theme. | ||
#*If you are having your party at an outside venue they will most likely take care of all the decorations before you arrive. | #*If you are having your party at an outside venue they will most likely take care of all the decorations before you arrive. | ||
| − | #Get some entertainment. Games and entertainment can be tricky at a 13th birthday, as you might not want to play the kind of games you liked when you were younger. Be sure to talk to your parents, so you all know what kind of entertainment you and your friends would like.<ref | + | #Get some entertainment. Games and entertainment can be tricky at a 13th birthday, as you might not want to play the kind of games you liked when you were younger. Be sure to talk to your parents, so you all know what kind of entertainment you and your friends would like.<ref name="rf4" /> You can keep it simple and provide some music, or maybe a movie, depending on what kind of party you're having. You could also hire some live performers/dancers to really get the party started. You could also have some classic party games such as: |
#*[[Play Twister|Twister]] | #*[[Play Twister|Twister]] | ||
#*[[Play Wink Murder|Wink Murder]] | #*[[Play Wink Murder|Wink Murder]] | ||
