Make Your Boyfriend Be More Romantic and Spontaneous

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How to make your boyfriend be more romantic and spontaneous

Steps

  1. Turn him on. It will make him feel more comfortable.
  2. Hold hands when you walk together.
  3. Don't look like a fool in front of him unless you're sure that's what he likes about you.
  4. Don't embarrass him in front of people. Give him time to be comfortable with you, not forced. Forced by definition contradicts true spontaneity.
  5. Making someone be what "you" consider spontaneous, may, in fact, prevent them from ever finding what is truly spontaneous for them.
  6. Smile at him and gaze into his eyes and if he gazes back, he likes you.
  7. Don't force him to be romantic, you want him to feel comfortable.
  8. If he doesn't like being romantic in front of people, try to be alone as much as you can so you can see his romantic side.
  9. Suggest to him that you are happy, but you need to have more romance in the relationship. However, don't make him angry!
  10. Don't be too pushy about things. If he needs space, give him space.
  11. Ask him what he likes, rather than always talking about yourself. However, don't let him do all the talking! Space it out so you each get a turn in the conversation!

Tips

  • Go for dinner as a treat every so often. A candle lit dinner would make the mood very romantic.
  • Share your romantic fantasies with him, he will want to fulfill them.
  • Give him a gift now and then, but not too often.

Warnings

  • Make sure you let him have his own life, not just with you constantly. He may want to see his friends once in a while so make sure you don't complain when wants to hang around with his mates instead of doing something with you.
  • Don't be clingy.
  • Ask him if he'd like to hang out with you and your mates, maybe?

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