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=== Budgeting and Planning for Your Care Package === | === Budgeting and Planning for Your Care Package === | ||
#Determine your budget. It’s easy to get out of hand with buying gifts for someone you care about, so stay firm on your budget. Remember that the most meaningful items for your boyfriend will likely be those that are sentimental in nature, and that the effort behind your care package will mean a lot to him, too. | #Determine your budget. It’s easy to get out of hand with buying gifts for someone you care about, so stay firm on your budget. Remember that the most meaningful items for your boyfriend will likely be those that are sentimental in nature, and that the effort behind your care package will mean a lot to him, too. | ||
| − | #*Make sure you factor in shipping costs to your budget. The heavier and bulkier your box is, the more expensive your shipping will be. You will also pay shipping costs based on how far the box needs to travel. You can get an estimate of what you’ll pay for shipping on your shipping company’s website.<ref>https://www.usps.com/ship/preparing-domestic-shipments.htm</ref> | + | #*Make sure you factor in shipping costs to your budget. The heavier and bulkier your box is, the more expensive your shipping will be. You will also pay shipping costs based on how far the box needs to travel. You can get an estimate of what you’ll pay for shipping on your shipping company’s website.<ref name="rf1">https://www.usps.com/ship/preparing-domestic-shipments.htm</ref> |
#Figure out when you need to ship it. If you want to get the gift to him on a certain day, pay attention to shipping dates. The closer to the deadline you ship it, the more expensive it will be or the less likely it is to get there on time. | #Figure out when you need to ship it. If you want to get the gift to him on a certain day, pay attention to shipping dates. The closer to the deadline you ship it, the more expensive it will be or the less likely it is to get there on time. | ||
#*During holidays, shipping companies and post offices will usually indicate a “ship by” date to help you determine when you should mail your package in order for it to arrive in time for the holiday. You can check with your preferred carrier to help you determine your shipping deadline. | #*During holidays, shipping companies and post offices will usually indicate a “ship by” date to help you determine when you should mail your package in order for it to arrive in time for the holiday. You can check with your preferred carrier to help you determine your shipping deadline. | ||
#Research shipping regulations. Make sure you know what you can and cannot send through the mail. If your boyfriend is in the military, he may be subject to additional regulations about what he can receive in the mail. | #Research shipping regulations. Make sure you know what you can and cannot send through the mail. If your boyfriend is in the military, he may be subject to additional regulations about what he can receive in the mail. | ||
| − | #*Make sure your package doesn’t include prohibited items, including weapons, explosives, and alcohol. Policies vary by shipping company, so do your research beforehand.<ref>http://pe.usps.com/text/pub52/welcome.htm</ref> | + | #*Make sure your package doesn’t include prohibited items, including weapons, explosives, and alcohol. Policies vary by shipping company, so do your research beforehand.<ref name="rf2">http://pe.usps.com/text/pub52/welcome.htm</ref> |
| − | #*Use extra caution if shipping overseas. Many countries have specific regulations about what can be sent through the mail. In general, sending perishable food (such as produce, meat, and dairy products) is subject to regulation and are best avoided.<ref | + | #*Use extra caution if shipping overseas. Many countries have specific regulations about what can be sent through the mail. In general, sending perishable food (such as produce, meat, and dairy products) is subject to regulation and are best avoided.<ref name="rf2" /> Specific country restrictions can be found here: http://pe.usps.com/text/imm/ab_toc.htm |
#Determine your boyfriend’s needs. A good care package will include some necessities, some treats, and some sentimental reminders of home. Factor in the availability of goods at your boyfriend’s location. For example, if he is just in another part of the country [[Send a Care Package to a Kid in College|at college]], he probably has access to the same goods as you do, so you may want to focus your care package more on local treats and sentimental items. If he is deployed in a developing country, he will appreciate more necessities than sentimental items. | #Determine your boyfriend’s needs. A good care package will include some necessities, some treats, and some sentimental reminders of home. Factor in the availability of goods at your boyfriend’s location. For example, if he is just in another part of the country [[Send a Care Package to a Kid in College|at college]], he probably has access to the same goods as you do, so you may want to focus your care package more on local treats and sentimental items. If he is deployed in a developing country, he will appreciate more necessities than sentimental items. | ||
#*Remember to keep size and weight of all items in mind as you make your purchasing decisions. | #*Remember to keep size and weight of all items in mind as you make your purchasing decisions. | ||
| − | #*Consider some special items if your boyfriend is on deployment. You may wish to consult some lists about what items servicemen and women want and need while on deployment. Some items you may want to send include powdered drink mix, individual packets of condiments (such as hot sauce), socks, batteries, or puzzle books.<ref>http://www.military.com/deployment/what-to-send-someone-who-is-deployed.html</ref> | + | #*Consider some special items if your boyfriend is on deployment. You may wish to consult some lists about what items servicemen and women want and need while on deployment. Some items you may want to send include powdered drink mix, individual packets of condiments (such as hot sauce), socks, batteries, or puzzle books.<ref name="rf3">http://www.military.com/deployment/what-to-send-someone-who-is-deployed.html</ref> |
=== Assembling the Package === | === Assembling the Package === | ||
#Buy necessities. Buy things you know your boyfriend needs, appreciates, and will use first. You could ask him about products he uses frequently, or items he needs replacing, in order to get ideas about what you’d like to include in his care package. | #Buy necessities. Buy things you know your boyfriend needs, appreciates, and will use first. You could ask him about products he uses frequently, or items he needs replacing, in order to get ideas about what you’d like to include in his care package. | ||
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#*If he has any children, younger cousins, or nieces and nephews, he may appreciate receiving some drawings, letters, or pictures of them. | #*If he has any children, younger cousins, or nieces and nephews, he may appreciate receiving some drawings, letters, or pictures of them. | ||
#*If he has a pet still at home, you could include a picture of his favorite dog or cat. | #*If he has a pet still at home, you could include a picture of his favorite dog or cat. | ||
| − | #*If you are sending a package for a holiday, you could include some holiday decorations. For example, if you are sending a Christmas care package, you could include a homemade ornament.<ref>https://www.verywell.com/care-package-ideas-for-college-students-2609278</ref> | + | #*If you are sending a package for a holiday, you could include some holiday decorations. For example, if you are sending a Christmas care package, you could include a homemade ornament.<ref name="rf4">https://www.verywell.com/care-package-ideas-for-college-students-2609278</ref> |
#Make something. If you want to maximize your budget, put your creative skills to good use to make your boyfriend something special. You could make him something useful or something sentimental. It can be as simple or as complicated as you wish, depending on your skill level and available time. | #Make something. If you want to maximize your budget, put your creative skills to good use to make your boyfriend something special. You could make him something useful or something sentimental. It can be as simple or as complicated as you wish, depending on your skill level and available time. | ||
#*If you are handy with fabric, you could make your boyfriend a blanket. A [[Make a Fleece Tie Blanket|fleece tie blanket]] doesn’t even require a sewing machine. | #*If you are handy with fabric, you could make your boyfriend a blanket. A [[Make a Fleece Tie Blanket|fleece tie blanket]] doesn’t even require a sewing machine. | ||
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#*If there is anything that is fragile, wrap it carefully with newspaper or bubble wrap. If you are sending a package to your boyfriend in a faraway country, he may appreciate the newspaper wrap to be able to read some of the news from back home! | #*If there is anything that is fragile, wrap it carefully with newspaper or bubble wrap. If you are sending a package to your boyfriend in a faraway country, he may appreciate the newspaper wrap to be able to read some of the news from back home! | ||
#*If there is any liquid, put it in a small plastic bag and tape up the ends. That way if it breaks open, the whole package isn’t ruined. | #*If there is any liquid, put it in a small plastic bag and tape up the ends. That way if it breaks open, the whole package isn’t ruined. | ||
| − | #*Separate toiletries and foods. Secure soaps in separate plastic bags to avoid their odor contaminating the food. Put foods in their own, separate plastic bags as well.<ref>http://militarybenefits.info/tips-for-sending-care-packages-to-the-military-overseas/</ref> | + | #*Separate toiletries and foods. Secure soaps in separate plastic bags to avoid their odor contaminating the food. Put foods in their own, separate plastic bags as well.<ref name="rf5">http://militarybenefits.info/tips-for-sending-care-packages-to-the-military-overseas/</ref> |
#*Stuff newspaper or filler material in the empty spaces in the boxes to prevent contents moving around. | #*Stuff newspaper or filler material in the empty spaces in the boxes to prevent contents moving around. | ||
#*Tape the box securely to prevent it from being opened during transit. | #*Tape the box securely to prevent it from being opened during transit. | ||
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#Ship your package. There are plenty of shipping companies that will deliver your parcel, as well as the post office. Shipping through your post office will likely be the least expensive, and private shipping companies will be more expensive. | #Ship your package. There are plenty of shipping companies that will deliver your parcel, as well as the post office. Shipping through your post office will likely be the least expensive, and private shipping companies will be more expensive. | ||
#*You may want to research several companies, as well as your post office, to find out how much it will cost to send a package. For example, you may want to call the company or go online to ask, “How much would it cost to send a six pound package from Chicago to Glasgow?” | #*You may want to research several companies, as well as your post office, to find out how much it will cost to send a package. For example, you may want to call the company or go online to ask, “How much would it cost to send a six pound package from Chicago to Glasgow?” | ||
| − | #*You may also have to pay extra if the dimensions of the package are outside acceptable limits.<ref | + | #*You may also have to pay extra if the dimensions of the package are outside acceptable limits.<ref name="rf1" /> |
#*If you want, get insurance on the package. It is usually fairly inexpensive. | #*If you want, get insurance on the package. It is usually fairly inexpensive. | ||
| − | #*Fill out a customs form if it is destined for somewhere outside of the country. You will get this form at your post office or at your shipping company. You need to list the contents of the package and the cost of the item on the form.<ref | + | #*Fill out a customs form if it is destined for somewhere outside of the country. You will get this form at your post office or at your shipping company. You need to list the contents of the package and the cost of the item on the form.<ref name="rf5" /> |
#*Make sure that the mailing address is correct, and that your return address is visible. | #*Make sure that the mailing address is correct, and that your return address is visible. | ||
#*If something included is perishable, make sure that that is indicated clearly on the outside of the package. | #*If something included is perishable, make sure that that is indicated clearly on the outside of the package. | ||
