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Knowing when to move in for the first kiss can be challenging, but it doesn't have to be. There are plenty of signs to point you in the right direction and keep you from embarrassing yourself. Most guys will let you know, either with their eyes or their words, that they want to kiss you. And once you've made your move, there are several things you can do to let him know you want him to kiss you. | Knowing when to move in for the first kiss can be challenging, but it doesn't have to be. There are plenty of signs to point you in the right direction and keep you from embarrassing yourself. Most guys will let you know, either with their eyes or their words, that they want to kiss you. And once you've made your move, there are several things you can do to let him know you want him to kiss you. | ||
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== Steps == | == Steps == | ||
=== Reading the Signs === | === Reading the Signs === | ||
| − | # Watch his eyes. A good way to tell if a guy wants to kiss you is to pay attention to where he's looking. If he's looking at your lips or staring into your eyes, he's probably thinking about kissing you.<ref>http://womanitely.com/ways-know-kiss/</ref> | + | # Watch his eyes. A good way to tell if a guy wants to kiss you is to pay attention to where he's looking. If he's looking at your lips or staring into your eyes, he's probably thinking about kissing you.<ref name="rf1">http://womanitely.com/ways-know-kiss/</ref> |
| − | #* He may even comment on your lips while he's looking at them. If he compliments your lips, or your eyes, he's ready for the kiss.<ref>http://www.lovedatingdoc.com/first-date-6-signs-kiss-you/</ref> | + | #* He may even comment on your lips while he's looking at them. If he compliments your lips, or your eyes, he's ready for the kiss.<ref name="rf2">http://www.lovedatingdoc.com/first-date-6-signs-kiss-you/</ref> |
| − | #* His eyes are a great indicator, but so are his facial expressions. Pay attention to the faces he makes when you are together.<ref | + | #* His eyes are a great indicator, but so are his facial expressions. Pay attention to the faces he makes when you are together.<ref name="rf1" /> |
| − | # Pay attention to his body language. If your boyfriend starts to get clumsy, or fidgety, he could be getting nervous about kissing you. Don't take it as a sign of boredom, he's probably just waiting for the chance to make his move.<ref | + | # Pay attention to his body language. If your boyfriend starts to get clumsy, or fidgety, he could be getting nervous about kissing you. Don't take it as a sign of boredom, he's probably just waiting for the chance to make his move.<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | #* He may start to play with his hair, touch his face, or even bite his bottom lip.<ref | + | #* He may start to play with his hair, touch his face, or even bite his bottom lip.<ref name="rf1" /> |
| − | #* Distance is a great indicator of desire as well. If he keeps finding ways to get closer to you, you should feel comfortable kissing him.<ref | + | #* Distance is a great indicator of desire as well. If he keeps finding ways to get closer to you, you should feel comfortable kissing him.<ref name="rf1" /> |
| − | # Listen to him. Don't just listen for compliments, though. Listen to the way he's talking to you. If his voice gets softer, and he starts whispering things to you, he's ready for a kiss.<ref>http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a7068/signs-hes-flirting-with-you/</ref> | + | # Listen to him. Don't just listen for compliments, though. Listen to the way he's talking to you. If his voice gets softer, and he starts whispering things to you, he's ready for a kiss.<ref name="rf3">http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a7068/signs-hes-flirting-with-you/</ref> |
| − | #* Whispering also requires him to move in closer to you, making it easier to kiss.<ref | + | #* Whispering also requires him to move in closer to you, making it easier to kiss.<ref name="rf1" /> |
| − | #* Speaking in a softer tone is an especially good sign if the two of you are in public. He's trying to get your attention and hold it, to make you feel like you two are the only people in the room.<ref | + | #* Speaking in a softer tone is an especially good sign if the two of you are in public. He's trying to get your attention and hold it, to make you feel like you two are the only people in the room.<ref name="rf3" /> |
| − | # Keep an ear out for pauses in the conversation. If he starts to get quiet, or there are more pauses in the conversation, he may not be losing interest. If he's maintaining eye contact, even if he's quiet, he's still trying to tell you something.<ref | + | # Keep an ear out for pauses in the conversation. If he starts to get quiet, or there are more pauses in the conversation, he may not be losing interest. If he's maintaining eye contact, even if he's quiet, he's still trying to tell you something.<ref name="rf2" /> |
| − | # Notice when he's flirting with you. All guys flirt in different ways, but a few things you can count on are touching and joking. If he's stroking your arm, or your lower back, he's trying to tell you he's into you. The same goes if he's laughing at your jokes, or making his own.<ref>http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a5838/signs-he-wants-you/</ref> | + | # Notice when he's flirting with you. All guys flirt in different ways, but a few things you can count on are touching and joking. If he's stroking your arm, or your lower back, he's trying to tell you he's into you. The same goes if he's laughing at your jokes, or making his own.<ref name="rf4">http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a5838/signs-he-wants-you/</ref> |
| − | #* He may also wink at you, which is almost definitely a sign that he's thinking of kissing you.<ref | + | #* He may also wink at you, which is almost definitely a sign that he's thinking of kissing you.<ref name="rf3" /> |
=== Going in for the [[Kiss|Kiss]] === | === Going in for the [[Kiss|Kiss]] === | ||
| − | # Get close. If you think your boyfriend is ready to kiss you, get close to him. Touch his arm or his face gently to let him know you're ready for a kiss.<ref>http://www.chemistry.com/datingadvice/ChemistryofKissing</ref> | + | # Get close. If you think your boyfriend is ready to kiss you, get close to him. Touch his arm or his face gently to let him know you're ready for a kiss.<ref name="rf5">http://www.chemistry.com/datingadvice/ChemistryofKissing</ref> |
| − | #* Don't cross your arms. Crossing your arms may give him the impression that you're not ready for a kiss. Instead, keep your body open and facing his.<ref | + | #* Don't cross your arms. Crossing your arms may give him the impression that you're not ready for a kiss. Instead, keep your body open and facing his.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | #* Smile at him to let him know you're comfortable. If you're relaxed, then he'll feel less anxious about making a move to kiss you.<ref | + | #* Smile at him to let him know you're comfortable. If you're relaxed, then he'll feel less anxious about making a move to kiss you.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | # Find a place where you feel comfortable. Kissing releases oxytocin, a chemical that makes us feel happy and relaxed. If you're worried about someone watching you, or an being interrupted, try moving to a new spot.<ref | + | # Find a place where you feel comfortable. Kissing releases oxytocin, a chemical that makes us feel happy and relaxed. If you're worried about someone watching you, or an being interrupted, try moving to a new spot.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | #* Once you start kissing, you may want to keep kissing for a while, so it's important to be in a spot where you feel safe.<ref | + | #* Once you start kissing, you may want to keep kissing for a while, so it's important to be in a spot where you feel safe.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | # Make eye contact. Look into your boyfriend's eyes before you kiss him, but also try opening your eyes during the kiss. Eye contact is a great way to build intimacy, especially while kissing.<ref | + | # Make eye contact. Look into your boyfriend's eyes before you kiss him, but also try opening your eyes during the kiss. Eye contact is a great way to build intimacy, especially while kissing.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | #* It might feel a little awkward at first, so don't stare too long while kissing. Just take a moment to look at your boyfriend while kissing, and then shut your eyes.<ref | + | #* It might feel a little awkward at first, so don't stare too long while kissing. Just take a moment to look at your boyfriend while kissing, and then shut your eyes.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | #* Take a break between kissing to re-establish eye contact with your boyfriend.<ref | + | #* Take a break between kissing to re-establish eye contact with your boyfriend.<ref name="rf5" /> |
| − | # Keep your mouth open. Don't shove your tongue down your boyfriend's throat, and don't cover his mouth in spit. Open your mouth wide enough to let your tongues touch and go from there.<ref>http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2010/02/some-interesting-facts-about-kissing/</ref> | + | # Keep your mouth open. Don't shove your tongue down your boyfriend's throat, and don't cover his mouth in spit. Open your mouth wide enough to let your tongues touch and go from there.<ref name="rf6">http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2010/02/some-interesting-facts-about-kissing/</ref> |
| − | #* Relax and work together. Try not to think about anything other than the kiss. If you get tense, the kiss will suffer.<ref>http://www.wowmuseum.org/kiss-guy-comes-back/</ref> | + | #* Relax and work together. Try not to think about anything other than the kiss. If you get tense, the kiss will suffer.<ref name="rf7">http://www.wowmuseum.org/kiss-guy-comes-back/</ref> |
| − | #* Don't breathe through your mouth and into his. Breathe through your nose when you kiss.<ref | + | #* Don't breathe through your mouth and into his. Breathe through your nose when you kiss.<ref name="rf7" /> |
| − | # Touch him. Keep your hands around his back or neck. Hold him close while you kiss.<ref | + | # Touch him. Keep your hands around his back or neck. Hold him close while you kiss.<ref name="rf7" /> |
| − | #* Don't get carried away if it's just your first kiss. Take some time to appreciate the power of a kiss on its own. Keep the touching simple and affectionate.<ref | + | #* Don't get carried away if it's just your first kiss. Take some time to appreciate the power of a kiss on its own. Keep the touching simple and affectionate.<ref name="rf5" /> |
=== Getting Him to Kiss You === | === Getting Him to Kiss You === | ||
| − | # Relax. The best thing you can do to make sure your guy knows he can kiss you is to relax when he's around you. If you make him feel comfortable, he'll be more willing to let his guard down and move in for a kiss.<ref>http://www.datingadvice.com/for-women/how-to-make-a-guy-want-to-kiss-you</ref> | + | # Relax. The best thing you can do to make sure your guy knows he can kiss you is to relax when he's around you. If you make him feel comfortable, he'll be more willing to let his guard down and move in for a kiss.<ref name="rf8">http://www.datingadvice.com/for-women/how-to-make-a-guy-want-to-kiss-you</ref> |
| − | #* Laugh at his jokes, smile at him, do anything you can to put his mind at ease. Making a move, even if it isn't the first, is risky. Guys don't always like to take chances with their egos and self-esteem. Do what you can to encourage him to make a move.<ref | + | #* Laugh at his jokes, smile at him, do anything you can to put his mind at ease. Making a move, even if it isn't the first, is risky. Guys don't always like to take chances with their egos and self-esteem. Do what you can to encourage him to make a move.<ref name="rf8" /> |
| − | # Stay fresh. Brush your teeth and practice good hygiene. Likewise, encourage him to do the same. Offer him a piece of gum if you're planning on kissing him. He may even take that as a sign that you're in the mood to kiss.<ref>http://slism.com/girlstalk/how-to-get-a-guy-to-kiss-you.html</ref> | + | # Stay fresh. Brush your teeth and practice good hygiene. Likewise, encourage him to do the same. Offer him a piece of gum if you're planning on kissing him. He may even take that as a sign that you're in the mood to kiss.<ref name="rf9">http://slism.com/girlstalk/how-to-get-a-guy-to-kiss-you.html</ref> |
| − | #* If you have chapped lips, use some lip balm. Make your lips appealing so he'll want to kiss you.<ref | + | #* If you have chapped lips, use some lip balm. Make your lips appealing so he'll want to kiss you.<ref name="rf9" /> |
| − | # Find ways to get close to him. Tell him you're cold. Ask for his jacket. Make him hug you. Guys respond pretty well to direct orders like this. If you can get him close to you, and hold him tight, he may not be able to keep himself from kissing you.<ref | + | # Find ways to get close to him. Tell him you're cold. Ask for his jacket. Make him hug you. Guys respond pretty well to direct orders like this. If you can get him close to you, and hold him tight, he may not be able to keep himself from kissing you.<ref name="rf9" /> |
| − | # Tell him. If nothing else, just tell him you want to kiss him. Pull him close, look him right in the eyes and tell him right out that you want him to kiss you. Chances are he'll respond with a kiss.<ref | + | # Tell him. If nothing else, just tell him you want to kiss him. Pull him close, look him right in the eyes and tell him right out that you want him to kiss you. Chances are he'll respond with a kiss.<ref name="rf8" /> |
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