Difference between revisions of "Kiss Goodnight"

#Walk your date to the door. At the end of the evening, escort your date to their place of departure, whether it be their front door, their car or the bus stop. Most first kisses happen right before you go your separate ways, so your first step is to put yourself into the proper setting to take advantage of the moment. If you don’t even manage to make it that far, there’s a much smaller chance that you’ll part with anything other than a friendly word.<ref name="rf1">http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xgfl3q_how-to-give-a-goodnight-kiss_lifestyle</ref>

#*It’s best if the two of you are somewhere dark, quiet and private. That way, you can focus all of your attention on one another.<ref name="rf2">http://www.piop.net/when-to-kiss-a-girl/</ref>

#Get close. Move in close to your date by bridging the distance between the two of you. Try to stand about an arm’s length away, or closer if circumstances allow it. If they don’t pull away as you get closer, you’re on the right track. The cozier and more personal you and your date get, the more likely you are to share a smooch.<ref name="rf3">http://attractgetwomen.com/the-first-kiss-when-should-you-kiss-a-woman-for-the-first-time/</ref>

#Maintain eye contact. Look your date square in the eye and smile warmly and flirtatiously. Making constant eye contact helps to form a connection between two people and opens channels for unspoken communication. If he or she steadily returns your gaze, there’s a good chance that they’d be receptive to a kiss.<ref name="rf2" />

#*Keep an eye out for what’s known as the “lover's triangle”: glancing from one or both your eyes down to your lips and back. It’s a nearly foolproof clue that your date foresees a kiss in their future.<ref name="rf4">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3028929/Tracey-Cox-five-eye-contact-tricks-man-s-attention-spot-s-interested-you.html</ref>

#Look for breaks in the conversation. Assuming that the two of you are still chatting and haven’t cut straight to staring into each other’s eyes, pay attention to frequent, pronounced lapses in your dialogue. It might mean that you both have something on the brain other than talking. Gaps in conversation often make a great cue for locking lips.<ref name="rf5">http://www.icrcaoda.org/how-to-get-a-girl-to-kiss-you-as-soon-as-tonight/</ref>

#Reflect on how the date went. Think back over the night. Was it enjoyable? Did the two of you have a lot to talk about? Does your date seem genuinely interested in you? Gauging the success of your date won’t tell you exactly when to throw yourself into a romantic embrace, but it can give you a good idea of how the other person will be feeling and whether or not a kiss would be appropriate way to end the evening.<ref name="rf6">http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/07/when-to-kiss/all/1/</ref>

#See if they’re in a hurry to get inside. Take note of whether or not your date lingers before saying goodnight. If they immediately start fumbling for their house keys once you reach the front door, you can be fairly certain that they’re not interested in taking things any further. If they’re slow moving or seem reluctant to bring the night to a close, however, they might be hopeful for a heartfelt sendoff.<ref name="rf1" />

#Be able to recognize dismissive behavior. Regardless of how you felt the night went, your date might be eager to get it over with. If he or she insists that you don’t need to walk them to their door, or keeps their distance once you’ve reached it, consider quitting while you’re ahead. Other red lights include closed off body language (turning away), unwillingness to meet your gaze, pursed lips and, worst of all, the dreaded handshake.<ref name="rf7">http://www.glamour.com/story/the-first-kiss-goodnight-yes-y</ref>

#Look for signs of anticipation. On the flipside, your date may clearly be putting off vibes that they’re into you. These can include facing you directly, parting their lips and giving you steady, suggestive glances (or eyeing you and then looking away bashfully). Actions like these are instinctively ingrained, and are about as obvious an invitation as you’re going to get.<ref name="rf2" />

#Wait for the right time. Be ready to seize an opportunity for a kiss when one arises. This will require a bit of feeling out on your part, depending on the situation. For every goodnight kiss there is a unique “window” during which conditions are perfect. Try to assess your date’s attitude and body language and decide whether it’s an appropriate time.<ref name="rf3" />

#Lean in slowly. When you feel the time is right, move in. Make sure you’re standing close enough to your date for the kiss to happen naturally. Lean in slowly and make your intentions evident—this will give them time to prepare, or to pull back if it’s not what they want. That moment of anticipation before a first kiss is almost electric!<ref name="rf6" />

#Make it special. Give them a kiss they’ll never forget. As you lean in, close your eyes and tilt your head. Part your lips and press them softly against your date’s, then kiss them more firmly. If you want, you can place a hand on their cheek, hip or small of their back and pull them in closer, or reach down to lace your fingers together.<ref name="rf8">http://theartofcharm.com/dating-tips/kiss-better-exes/</ref>

#*Get a sense of when to end the kiss. Wait until the passion reaches its peak, then be the first to break away. Always leave them wanting more.<ref name="rf2" />

#Don’t overdo it. A good first kiss is opportunistic, sensual and doesn’t overstay its welcome. Unless your date is particularly enthusiastic, don’t try to slip them the tongue, get grabby, breathe heavily or do anything else that they might find off-putting. Just enjoy the fireworks for a few moments, then tell them goodnight or await an invitation to come inside. Ah, love!<ref name="rf2" />