Turn off a Boy Who Likes You

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It's difficult when a guy likes you but you don't feel the same way about him. But don't worry, read these steps and turn him off.

Steps

  1. Give him signals that you only want to be friends. Act like you would around any other friend. This way there will be no confusion that you are just friends.
  2. Give him a friendly hug (not romantic).
  3. Don't compliment him. Boys sometimes take this as a sign that you are attracted to them.
  4. Wear ugly clothes or no make-up. Don't fix your hair and make it look like you've made no effort. Be gross around him. You could take it to the extreme and don't take a bath or shower.
  5. Be cold-hearted. Don't be sympathetic to anyone around him. For example, if someone made a mistake say "She/he shouldn't have been so stupid."
  6. Say you have a boyfriend and that you and your boyfriend have been going strong. If he suspects you're lying, he probably won't like you and that's what you want to do, right?
  7. Ignore him and don't talk to him. The best thing to do is to give the cold shoulder or whenever you see him, walk the other way to avoid him.
  8. Act dumb and annoy him. Constantly be clumsy. Ask him a lot of obvious dumb questions and pester him about everything.
  9. Be blunt. Whenever he tries to talk to you give him really short answers. for example if he says want to do something later today? Just say "nah" and don't explain yourself. And if he calls you act like you have to go. By the 5th phone call he should get the hint.

Tips

  • Don't be too friendly, he will think you're flirting with him.. we don't want that now do we?
  • Talk about other boys that you may be interested in, this will send him the message nice and clear to back off.
  • Best advice is to tell him you don't like him in that way and you would like it if he would stop smothering you with so much attention. Just tell the truth and be honest.
  • Always talk about guys who have the one-upper... good looks, intelligence, great body, and of course a great smile. He'll feel extremely self-conscious but don't be too evil on him.
  • If all else fails, start lying. We all hate liars so lie about stuff... (Could cause you to feel fake)
  • Be disinterested about his hobbies, and try to focus on something else like your own hobbies or studies.

Warnings

  • Be careful! If this person starts becoming a stalker, avoiding the person all together may be the best idea. Call the police or administrators.
  • Remember to be nice! If he really likes you, he will be upset that you don't like him back.

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