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===Getting Yourself Noticed=== | ===Getting Yourself Noticed=== | ||
| − | #Look your best. Dressing nice with your hair styled is a great way to get noticed in a crowd. Looking your best also provides level of confidence that helps you get noticed. When you know you will see your crush, pick a special outfit and take the extra time to style your hair.<ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/how-to-get-your-crush-to-notice-you-and-like-you-back</ref> | + | #Look your best. Dressing nice with your hair styled is a great way to get noticed in a crowd. Looking your best also provides level of confidence that helps you get noticed. When you know you will see your crush, pick a special outfit and take the extra time to style your hair.<ref name="rf1">http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/how-to-get-your-crush-to-notice-you-and-like-you-back</ref> |
| − | #Be around your crush. The more often you are around someone, the more likely they are to like you. This is a psychological effect called the proximity effect. Find ways to frequently be in the same place as your crush:<ref>http://www.readunwritten.com/2014/04/08/the-psychology-of-attraction-7-easy-ways-to-win-over-your-crush/</ref> | + | #Be around your crush. The more often you are around someone, the more likely they are to like you. This is a psychological effect called the proximity effect. Find ways to frequently be in the same place as your crush:<ref name="rf2">http://www.readunwritten.com/2014/04/08/the-psychology-of-attraction-7-easy-ways-to-win-over-your-crush/</ref> |
#*Casually show up to your crush’s workplace if it is somewhere the general public goes. | #*Casually show up to your crush’s workplace if it is somewhere the general public goes. | ||
#*Attend sporting events or club meetings that your crush is a part of. | #*Attend sporting events or club meetings that your crush is a part of. | ||
#*Hang out with mutual friends and attend social gatherings where you'll see the person you like. | #*Hang out with mutual friends and attend social gatherings where you'll see the person you like. | ||
| − | #Flirt with eye contact. Eye contact is a quick and easy way to flirt and communicate with your crush. Casually glance at your crush for a few seconds to pique the person's interest.<ref>http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/subtle-eye-contact-flirting</ref> | + | #Flirt with eye contact. Eye contact is a quick and easy way to flirt and communicate with your crush. Casually glance at your crush for a few seconds to pique the person's interest.<ref name="rf3">http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/subtle-eye-contact-flirting</ref> |
#*When the person you like catches you glancing, lock eyes for a moment and then look away to smile to yourself. | #*When the person you like catches you glancing, lock eyes for a moment and then look away to smile to yourself. | ||
#*Wait a few minutes and then repeat the glances towards the person. | #*Wait a few minutes and then repeat the glances towards the person. | ||
#*If you notice your crush looking at you while you are looking away, turn and lock eyes for a few seconds and smile. | #*If you notice your crush looking at you while you are looking away, turn and lock eyes for a few seconds and smile. | ||
===Communicating With Your Crush=== | ===Communicating With Your Crush=== | ||
| − | #Build common interests with your crush. Find out what interests and hobbies the person you like is into. Make a point to start learning about or getting interested in a few of your crush’s favorite past times. Shared interests give you a common topic of conversation and the ability to bond over something.<ref>http://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/advice/g1757/how-to-get-your-crush/?slide=6</ref> | + | #Build common interests with your crush. Find out what interests and hobbies the person you like is into. Make a point to start learning about or getting interested in a few of your crush’s favorite past times. Shared interests give you a common topic of conversation and the ability to bond over something.<ref name="rf4">http://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/advice/g1757/how-to-get-your-crush/?slide=6</ref> |
#*Ask for tips or advice on beginning a new hobby. | #*Ask for tips or advice on beginning a new hobby. | ||
#*Talk about current scores or events related to favorite teams. | #*Talk about current scores or events related to favorite teams. | ||
| − | #Display positive body language when you’re around your crush. Positive body language conveys a message of openness, friendliness, and approachability. Try these ways to show positive body language the next time you’re talking to your crush.<ref>http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2014/02/5-secrets-to-make-people-like-you/</ref> | + | #Display positive body language when you’re around your crush. Positive body language conveys a message of openness, friendliness, and approachability. Try these ways to show positive body language the next time you’re talking to your crush.<ref name="rf5">http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2014/02/5-secrets-to-make-people-like-you/</ref> |
#*Stand with your body at an angle rather than head on. | #*Stand with your body at an angle rather than head on. | ||
#*Leave your arms down or with one hand on your hip. Avoid crossing your arms because it sends a message of being closed off. | #*Leave your arms down or with one hand on your hip. Avoid crossing your arms because it sends a message of being closed off. | ||
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#*Brush up against the person you like and then lock eyes as you politely apologize. | #*Brush up against the person you like and then lock eyes as you politely apologize. | ||
#Slow down your speech when talking to your crush. Sometimes when people get nervous, they start talking faster. Fast talking can make others feel uneasy and get a negative vibe from you, so be sure to talk slowly and calmly. | #Slow down your speech when talking to your crush. Sometimes when people get nervous, they start talking faster. Fast talking can make others feel uneasy and get a negative vibe from you, so be sure to talk slowly and calmly. | ||
| − | #Flirt with the person you like. Flirting is the universal sign that someone is attracted to you. Use different flirting techniques when you are around your crush to show you have an attraction and want to build some chemistry together.<ref | + | #Flirt with the person you like. Flirting is the universal sign that someone is attracted to you. Use different flirting techniques when you are around your crush to show you have an attraction and want to build some chemistry together.<ref name="rf1" /> |
#*Compliment your crush when you're talking. | #*Compliment your crush when you're talking. | ||
#*Smile genuinely and laugh at the jokes your crush tells. | #*Smile genuinely and laugh at the jokes your crush tells. | ||
