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#Show him that you are enjoying yourself in conversation. One way to get a guy to like talking to you is if you seem like you are having a good time talking with him. A few ways you can show you are having fun is if you make eye contact, smile often, laugh genuinely, and lean forward slightly when you are talking. When you are talking, tilt your head to one side, smile and touch your hair, neck or clothes. But don’t over think it, just do what feels natural as well. Your nonverbal signals should just show him that you are having a good time.<ref name="rf8318" /> | #Show him that you are enjoying yourself in conversation. One way to get a guy to like talking to you is if you seem like you are having a good time talking with him. A few ways you can show you are having fun is if you make eye contact, smile often, laugh genuinely, and lean forward slightly when you are talking. When you are talking, tilt your head to one side, smile and touch your hair, neck or clothes. But don’t over think it, just do what feels natural as well. Your nonverbal signals should just show him that you are having a good time.<ref name="rf8318" /> | ||
#*Let him know you like messaging with him if you are mostly messaging. For example, you can say something like, “I think you’re pretty fun to text with.” | #*Let him know you like messaging with him if you are mostly messaging. For example, you can say something like, “I think you’re pretty fun to text with.” | ||
| − | #Be confident in who you are, and enjoy yourself in his company. Write down the things that make you awesome. Knowing why you are awesome and not being afraid to show it attracts others. <ref name="rf3530" /> | + | #Be confident in who you are, and enjoy yourself in his company. Write down the things that make you awesome. Knowing why you are awesome and not being afraid to show it attracts others. <ref name="rf3530">https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/think-confident-be-confident/200909/seven-simple-strategies-effectively-attracting-others</ref> |
#*Do not be afraid to make mistakes around him. Be authentic to the real you, quirks and all. Relax and laugh when you make mistakes, everyone does. | #*Do not be afraid to make mistakes around him. Be authentic to the real you, quirks and all. Relax and laugh when you make mistakes, everyone does. | ||
#*Do not act like someone you think that he would like instead of being yourself. Imagine if someone were acting in a certain way to please you, would you like that? Probably not. | #*Do not act like someone you think that he would like instead of being yourself. Imagine if someone were acting in a certain way to please you, would you like that? Probably not. | ||
