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If a guy hurts you, you may want to hurt him back. There may be a biological basis for revenge, as people tend to feel pleasure when fantasizing about seeking revenge.<ref name="rf1">https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/pieces-mind/201309/revenge-will-you-feel-better</ref> If you're struggling to manage your feelings, you may want to do some small things to get back at a guy. However, try to keep your emotions in check. Being vindictive or aggressive will only create more conflict. The best way to get back on someone who hurt you is to work on yourself. Work on getting in shape and moving forward. If your ex sees you don't need him to be happy, that will be revenge enough. | If a guy hurts you, you may want to hurt him back. There may be a biological basis for revenge, as people tend to feel pleasure when fantasizing about seeking revenge.<ref name="rf1">https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/pieces-mind/201309/revenge-will-you-feel-better</ref> If you're struggling to manage your feelings, you may want to do some small things to get back at a guy. However, try to keep your emotions in check. Being vindictive or aggressive will only create more conflict. The best way to get back on someone who hurt you is to work on yourself. Work on getting in shape and moving forward. If your ex sees you don't need him to be happy, that will be revenge enough. | ||
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== Steps == | == Steps == | ||
=== Seeking Petty Revenge === | === Seeking Petty Revenge === | ||
