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Whatever you've done to break trust with your wife, you will be walking on eggshells right until the point of earning back that trust. Trust between a husband and wife (or a wife and wife) is part and parcel of believing, nay, making the choice that the two of you will remain inseparable for the rest of your lives. And that includes not being unfaithful, not frittering away the household funds, not mortgaging the house to fund gambling habits, not harming your wife, not gossiping about her, and so forth. Trust is so easily broken when you fail to take into account how your selfishness or descent into weakness will break another's heart and will. If you've lost your wife's trust, whatever the reason, the bulk of the workload to get back that trust rests on your shoulders. Have courage, acknowledge your wrongdoing and start working hard to get things back on track. | Whatever you've done to break trust with your wife, you will be walking on eggshells right until the point of earning back that trust. Trust between a husband and wife (or a wife and wife) is part and parcel of believing, nay, making the choice that the two of you will remain inseparable for the rest of your lives. And that includes not being unfaithful, not frittering away the household funds, not mortgaging the house to fund gambling habits, not harming your wife, not gossiping about her, and so forth. Trust is so easily broken when you fail to take into account how your selfishness or descent into weakness will break another's heart and will. If you've lost your wife's trust, whatever the reason, the bulk of the workload to get back that trust rests on your shoulders. Have courage, acknowledge your wrongdoing and start working hard to get things back on track. | ||
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#Give your wife space and let time do the healing. She is going through a huge range of emotions, just as you are. Some days it'll seem clearer to her than others. She may find it easier to talk about it with you sometimes but not other times. All of this is normal and part of the healing process. It is important to not rush or push her into reaching decisions about her feelings or her wants for the future; if she feels pressured, the easiest option may be to give up on you for fear of being controlled or manipulated. Space, time and love are the ingredients for helping her to come around to forgiving you, trusting you and starting anew. | #Give your wife space and let time do the healing. She is going through a huge range of emotions, just as you are. Some days it'll seem clearer to her than others. She may find it easier to talk about it with you sometimes but not other times. All of this is normal and part of the healing process. It is important to not rush or push her into reaching decisions about her feelings or her wants for the future; if she feels pressured, the easiest option may be to give up on you for fear of being controlled or manipulated. Space, time and love are the ingredients for helping her to come around to forgiving you, trusting you and starting anew. | ||
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== Tips == | == Tips == | ||
