Give a Girl the Perfect Date
Here are a few tips to help you make her go crazy!
Steps
- Open doors for her, and if you have a car, open that door as well. It shows her you respect her and will make her feel special.
- Let her choose the place, unless she doesn't want to. In that case, have an idea ready as a backup. Try not to pick anything you really like- remember, it's about her. It does not have to be expensive, she wants to get to know you, it should not be about the wallet- but don't be a cheapskate either.
- Don't do anything where you will get sweaty or messy, it may take some of the fun out of it. You're going for style here- sorry guys, this includes all messy foods "oh man no ribs!"
- Remember it`s an investment. Yes you are paying but whatever you shell out is worth it.
- Find out what she is interested in. This will keep the conversation going if you run out of things to say. For example, if she likes dancing, then maybe ask "So how is your dancing going?" or something of the like.
- Only go as far as she wants to, don't force yourself on her- that's just wrong! If she just wants to hold hands then that's fine. Take it slow- even the players play the long game. What you don't get today she might give you tomorrow; respect her.
- Compliment her, tell her she is beautiful - not sexy! Compliment her personality (that never hurts) but don't overdo it or you will lose all sincerity. Casually drop these compliments in over the date.
- Be yourself; just an edited version. She may not be as keen on monster trucks as you or get that weird sense of humor you have so go easy and reveal yourself more over time- too much too soon may give her the impression that you're too forward.
Tips
- Relax and let things flow. But be careful with what you say- you don't want to go about insulting her; but if you do, just apologize and move on. It`s the only way out of it- say a quick "sorry, my bad" and move on.
- Show her that you care. Don't look through your messages on your phone when she's talking to you. Look her in the eyes and pay attention to what she's saying. Women love a guy that is polite and focused on her.
- If you have dinner, excuse yourself go to the men's room and check you haven't got any food on you or in your teeth. Girls don't kiss guys with gunk in their teeth or dirty faces.
- Be yourself- women can tell when you are being fake (well, not always thank god) but it's easier to be yourself than to maintain a "web of lies"
- Have fun!
- Look handsome for the date: get a hair cut, shower, wash your face, pick clothes that match (looking smart and casual always works), smell nice (don't drown yourself in anything- a little spritz of something is ok). Remember: if you have a deodorant that smells, aftershave will clash with it and make you stink. And no sportswear unless you are doing sports.
- You should always carry gum with you - girls are more likely to kiss a guy with fresh breath. Mints might be better, due to the fact that you don't produce as much spit and you're not going to look like your drooling.
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