Difference between revisions of "Deal With a Terrible Mother as an Adult"

We don't get to pick our parents, in this case, a mother. If you are in a family with an abusive, weak or troubled mother, there are steps you can do to protect yourself and hopefully your siblings. The most important factor to consider here is to accept that the consequences and to remember that a mother will only come once.

We don't get to pick our parents, in this case, a mother. If you are in a family with an abusive, weak or troubled mother, there are steps you can do to protect yourself and hopefully your siblings. The most important factor to consider here is to accept that the consequences and to remember that a mother will only come once.

== Steps ==

== Steps ==

# Back to the basics. It is very simple, once you get a grip out of it, you will find a solution to it and it applies to each and every issue that you could ever encounter in your lifetime. The secret is to being able to remember the good in the bad. In this case we have an abusive mother, think of the very first memory that you have had with her. For example; some might see themselves being fed by her. How do we see that person, that individual, that we call 'mother'? In most cases we vision a; caring, loving, calming, perfect mother.

# Back to the basics. It is very simple, once you get a grip out of it, you will find a solution to it and it applies to each and every issue that you could ever encounter in your lifetime. The secret is to being able to remember the good in the bad. In this case we have an abusive mother, think of the very first memory that you have had with her. For example; some might see themselves being fed by her. How do we see that person, that individual, that we call 'mother'? In most cases we vision a; caring, loving, calming, perfect mother.