Keep Your Affair a Secret

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There is a lot of literature that is dedicated to help those figure out whether their spouse or loved one is having an affair and if so how to catch the cheater. While having an affair may or may not be wrong, it seems it would only be fair to share some tips to those who want to know how to have an affair and how to keep it a secret. Before you do have an affair, think about the ramifications it will have on your family and on yourself... if you're prepared to face those consequences, then read on for a few simple steps to keep your love affair a secret.

Steps

  1. You could sign up for a "secret email." Use this email to sign up on dating sites or to exchange emails with your cheating partner. The service might send you well-camouflaged alerts (on your main id) whenever you get an email at your secret id.
  2. Use an online dating site to help you find a partner from the privacy of your own home. When browsing online, make sure to use the 'private' browsing feature in your web browser to make sure that your web history doesn't get recorded. You should also download an application to delete any cookies, history, etc. from your computer.
  3. Do not tell anyone... ever! This includes your siblings, your friends, your colleagues. Sure it might be fun to brag about the new hot woman or hunk in your life, but it'll come back to bite you. When having an affair, it should be kept as confidential as you possibly can to avoid having your partner find out!
  4. Make sure to keep to your routine as much
  5. No matter how luckily you have been successful in hiding that secret affair of yours, but the truth is .. It will be an open affair sooner or later. There is an old saying regarding this, "The affair and fragrance are the two things which can never remain hidden".
  6. For a short time you can keep it hidden by deleting your growing history, chatting history, cookies, emails, sms and phone call. but there comes a time when our body language start speaking for it self and your hidden affair would finally come to an end or to say " a disgraceful dirty end". Life goes on but you will never be able to forgive your own self. Just for a moment, try imagining a life when you are hating yourself and the respect you gained in all those years would vanish in seconds.

Tips

  • Sit somewhere alone in peace and quite, try to find out the reasons why you cheated on your loved one/spouse. Trust me, you are the only one who can tell the reason. If you find the reason, then take the action. Choose the one you want to be with. No matter what .. it is your life and your happiness. It is better to take a thoughtful and quick action rather than prolonging that secret affair which definitely in the end would be a news around. Better take a decision at right time and move forward. It is better to "QUIT" then keep on cheating on your spouse and disgrace yourself.
  • Wrong decisions are a part of life. They actually tell you, who you are and what you want. You should know what you want, go ahead with that and don't look back. Life is too short and miserable enough already.

Warnings

  • Remember, having an affair isn't always fun, care-free or risk-free. No matter how much you follow the article, there is always a chance of getting caught. Think about the pain you may cause your partner and your family if you get caught. Also, think about the stress you may cause yourself, both in trying to keep your affair secret and if you were to get caught.

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