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There are lots of parties and events happening every night, don’t let the fact that you haven’t been officially invited stop you from joining in. Crashing a party can be a real rush and a great way to meet new people. Provided you’re a well-behaved guest, you can add a lot to the party atmosphere. The following steps tell you how to crash a party and have fun doing it! | There are lots of parties and events happening every night, don’t let the fact that you haven’t been officially invited stop you from joining in. Crashing a party can be a real rush and a great way to meet new people. Provided you’re a well-behaved guest, you can add a lot to the party atmosphere. The following steps tell you how to crash a party and have fun doing it! | ||
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== Steps == | == Steps == | ||
=== Taking the Necessary Precautions === | === Taking the Necessary Precautions === | ||
#Dress the part. At a bare minimum you should make yourself clean and presentable. The next step is to wear the appropriate party attire, so that you look the part and don't draw attention to yourself. Everyone appreciates a well-dressed party guest, but appropriate attire will depend on the type of party you are trying to crash. | #Dress the part. At a bare minimum you should make yourself clean and presentable. The next step is to wear the appropriate party attire, so that you look the part and don't draw attention to yourself. Everyone appreciates a well-dressed party guest, but appropriate attire will depend on the type of party you are trying to crash. | ||
#*If it’s a house party, go for smart casual. | #*If it’s a house party, go for smart casual. | ||
| − | #*If it’s a formal event, black tie is appropriate. A dark suit for men and dress for women. Black is always a good look and will help you to blend in.<ref>http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/1705711.stm</ref> | + | #*If it’s a formal event, black tie is appropriate. A dark suit for men and dress for women. Black is always a good look and will help you to blend in.<ref name="rf1">http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/1705711.stm</ref> |
#*If it’s a fancy dress party, you’ll want to figure out the theme and try to wear an acceptable costume. | #*If it’s a fancy dress party, you’ll want to figure out the theme and try to wear an acceptable costume. | ||
#Get something to bring along. Alcohol is always appreciated at a house party, and a bottle of wine is a standard choice. Bringing something to offer around will ensure that you are a welcome addition to the party. | #Get something to bring along. Alcohol is always appreciated at a house party, and a bottle of wine is a standard choice. Bringing something to offer around will ensure that you are a welcome addition to the party. | ||
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#*Pay attention to the decor as this can give you vital clues. Are there any signs giving information about the event? Or balloons and a birthday cake? | #*Pay attention to the decor as this can give you vital clues. Are there any signs giving information about the event? Or balloons and a birthday cake? | ||
=== Getting into the Party === | === Getting into the Party === | ||
| − | #Project confidence. This is key to getting into the party, you have to act as if you belong there. If you have nerves about getting in, do your best to hide them. Appearing hesitant can mark you out as a crasher.<ref>http://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2012/09/the-experts-guide-to-party-crashing/261931/</ref> Walk in with confident body language and a smile. | + | #Project confidence. This is key to getting into the party, you have to act as if you belong there. If you have nerves about getting in, do your best to hide them. Appearing hesitant can mark you out as a crasher.<ref name="rf2">http://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2012/09/the-experts-guide-to-party-crashing/261931/</ref> Walk in with confident body language and a smile. |
| − | #Watch your timing. You want to arrive at the party when it’s in full swing. Don’t go too early or too late as things are winding down. Arriving at the peak of the party means you are less likely to be noticed as an uninvited guest.<ref>http://adequateman.deadspin.com/how-to-crash-a-party-like-a-pro-1739238682?trending_test_two_e&utm_expid=66866090-68.hhyw_lmCRuCTCg0I2RHHtw.4</ref> | + | #Watch your timing. You want to arrive at the party when it’s in full swing. Don’t go too early or too late as things are winding down. Arriving at the peak of the party means you are less likely to be noticed as an uninvited guest.<ref name="rf3">http://adequateman.deadspin.com/how-to-crash-a-party-like-a-pro-1739238682?trending_test_two_e&utm_expid=66866090-68.hhyw_lmCRuCTCg0I2RHHtw.4</ref> |
| − | #Tag onto a big group. This can be a useful way of getting inside the party. Join a big group as the enter and you might be able to slip in without attracting attention.<ref | + | #Tag onto a big group. This can be a useful way of getting inside the party. Join a big group as the enter and you might be able to slip in without attracting attention.<ref name="rf1" /> |
#Look for another entrance. This is particularly useful if you are trying to crash a more formal party or an organized event. | #Look for another entrance. This is particularly useful if you are trying to crash a more formal party or an organized event. | ||
#* Try the back door, which may not be manned by security or the person with the guest list. | #* Try the back door, which may not be manned by security or the person with the guest list. | ||
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#Get a badge. Some parties, like those held at conferences or business events, require all guests to wear badges. Here are a few ways you can get hold of a badge. | #Get a badge. Some parties, like those held at conferences or business events, require all guests to wear badges. Here are a few ways you can get hold of a badge. | ||
#* Ask a friend if you can borrow their badge. If you already know someone attending, this is a great way to get in. Even better, make a new friend and they may give you theirs! | #* Ask a friend if you can borrow their badge. If you already know someone attending, this is a great way to get in. Even better, make a new friend and they may give you theirs! | ||
| − | #* Ask someone who is leaving to give you their badge. Don't begin by asking for their badge, engage them in conversation first. Perhaps start by asking if they enjoyed the event. Eventually, work your way up to asking if they would give you their badge, you can say you misplaced your own.<ref>https://medium.com/useful-now-startups/how-to-crash-any-conference-demo-day-vip-party-3d28505d7e82#.6ddwmxsx7</ref> | + | #* Ask someone who is leaving to give you their badge. Don't begin by asking for their badge, engage them in conversation first. Perhaps start by asking if they enjoyed the event. Eventually, work your way up to asking if they would give you their badge, you can say you misplaced your own.<ref name="rf4">https://medium.com/useful-now-startups/how-to-crash-any-conference-demo-day-vip-party-3d28505d7e82#.6ddwmxsx7</ref> |
#* Check the trash can. Often as people leave events they throw away their badge. Look in the floor, and, if you are really keen, the trash can, for any discarded badges. | #* Check the trash can. Often as people leave events they throw away their badge. Look in the floor, and, if you are really keen, the trash can, for any discarded badges. | ||
#Make an effort to learn names. This applies particularly to house parties. If there is a crowd gathered outside, strike up a conversation with the friendliest looking person and ask them how they know the host. Once you know the host’s name you can use this to get into the party. | #Make an effort to learn names. This applies particularly to house parties. If there is a crowd gathered outside, strike up a conversation with the friendliest looking person and ask them how they know the host. Once you know the host’s name you can use this to get into the party. | ||
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#*Remember, if the host tells you to leave, then it's time to leave. | #*Remember, if the host tells you to leave, then it's time to leave. | ||
#Offer to return the favor. Ideally you will have a wonderful night of party-crashing and you'll make many new friends. Get their contact details and return the favor by organizing your own party and inviting all the new people you've met. | #Offer to return the favor. Ideally you will have a wonderful night of party-crashing and you'll make many new friends. Get their contact details and return the favor by organizing your own party and inviting all the new people you've met. | ||
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== Tips == | == Tips == | ||
*Be open-minded. If you get to the party, and it doesn't look as fun as you thought it would be, stay for awhile anyway! You may make a great contact, or new friends. | *Be open-minded. If you get to the party, and it doesn't look as fun as you thought it would be, stay for awhile anyway! You may make a great contact, or new friends. | ||
