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===Dealing With Common PTSD Symptoms=== | ===Dealing With Common PTSD Symptoms=== | ||
| − | #Watch for symptoms. Rape-related post-traumatic stress disorder can cause a wide range of symptoms. Pay attention to how you have been feeling, emotionally and physically. As you are preparing to meet with your doctor, keep a record of your symptoms.<ref>http://www.ptsd.va.gov/public/PTSD-overview/women/sexual-assault-females.asp</ref>Common symptoms of rape-related post-traumatic stress disorder include:<ref>http://www.svfreenyc.org/survivors_factsheet_43.html#2</ref> | + | #Watch for symptoms. Rape-related post-traumatic stress disorder can cause a wide range of symptoms. Pay attention to how you have been feeling, emotionally and physically. As you are preparing to meet with your doctor, keep a record of your symptoms.<ref name="rf1">http://www.ptsd.va.gov/public/PTSD-overview/women/sexual-assault-females.asp</ref>Common symptoms of rape-related post-traumatic stress disorder include:<ref name="rf2">http://www.svfreenyc.org/survivors_factsheet_43.html#2</ref> |
#*Re-experiencing the rape in the form of intrusive thoughts, nightmares, and flashbacks. | #*Re-experiencing the rape in the form of intrusive thoughts, nightmares, and flashbacks. | ||
#*Withdrawing socially, such as isolating yourself, feeling emotionally numb, or losing interest in things, such as family, friends, work, and hobbies. | #*Withdrawing socially, such as isolating yourself, feeling emotionally numb, or losing interest in things, such as family, friends, work, and hobbies. | ||
#*Using avoidance behaviors, such as avoiding situations and places that trigger memories of the rape. | #*Using avoidance behaviors, such as avoiding situations and places that trigger memories of the rape. | ||
#*Feeling like you are always on alert or hyper-aware of your surroundings, which may cause trouble sleeping, difficulty concentrating, and irritability. | #*Feeling like you are always on alert or hyper-aware of your surroundings, which may cause trouble sleeping, difficulty concentrating, and irritability. | ||
| − | #Seek help from a therapist. Overcoming PTSD will take time and the help of a licensed mental health professional. Tell your doctor that you would like to seek therapy for your PTSD and ask for a referral to a therapist in your area.<ref>http://www.aaets.org/article178.htm</ref> | + | #Seek help from a therapist. Overcoming PTSD will take time and the help of a licensed mental health professional. Tell your doctor that you would like to seek therapy for your PTSD and ask for a referral to a therapist in your area.<ref name="rf3">http://www.aaets.org/article178.htm</ref> |
#*Your therapist may use something called cognitive behavior therapy to help you. Cognitive behavior therapy can help to change the way that you think, which may reduce instances of re-experiencing the rape, such as in the form of [[Stop-Obsessing-over-Disturbing-Thoughts|intrusive thoughts]]. | #*Your therapist may use something called cognitive behavior therapy to help you. Cognitive behavior therapy can help to change the way that you think, which may reduce instances of re-experiencing the rape, such as in the form of [[Stop-Obsessing-over-Disturbing-Thoughts|intrusive thoughts]]. | ||
#*Your therapist may also use exposure therapy to reduce the effects of your triggers. This involves exposing you to your triggers in a progressive way. Each time you are exposed to one of your triggers, you will use a relaxation technique to calm yourself down, such as [[Breathe Deeply|deep breathing]], [[Do-Yoga-for-Absolute-Beginners|yoga]] or [[Meditate|meditation]]. Over time, your triggers should begin to affect you less and less. | #*Your therapist may also use exposure therapy to reduce the effects of your triggers. This involves exposing you to your triggers in a progressive way. Each time you are exposed to one of your triggers, you will use a relaxation technique to calm yourself down, such as [[Breathe Deeply|deep breathing]], [[Do-Yoga-for-Absolute-Beginners|yoga]] or [[Meditate|meditation]]. Over time, your triggers should begin to affect you less and less. | ||
| − | #Resist the urge to ignore your emotions. You have gone through a traumatic experience. It is common for rape survivors to use avoidance behaviors to cope. However, using avoidance can affect the way that you experience other emotions as well, such as sadness, joy, anger, etc.<ref | + | #Resist the urge to ignore your emotions. You have gone through a traumatic experience. It is common for rape survivors to use avoidance behaviors to cope. However, using avoidance can affect the way that you experience other emotions as well, such as sadness, joy, anger, etc.<ref name="rf3" /> |
#*Allow yourself to feel a wide range of emotions. It is normal to experience sadness, fear, grief, guilt, and anger. | #*Allow yourself to feel a wide range of emotions. It is normal to experience sadness, fear, grief, guilt, and anger. | ||
#*Don't be hard on yourself for being emotional. Say to yourself, "I'm feeling angry today, and that is normal." | #*Don't be hard on yourself for being emotional. Say to yourself, "I'm feeling angry today, and that is normal." | ||
#*Work with your therapist to find healthy ways to express and manage your emotions. | #*Work with your therapist to find healthy ways to express and manage your emotions. | ||
#*Talk to friends and family about your emotions. Don't be afraid to be honest. You can try saying, "I'm having a really sad day. Don't take it personally if I start crying." Talking about your feelings can help you to process them. | #*Talk to friends and family about your emotions. Don't be afraid to be honest. You can try saying, "I'm having a really sad day. Don't take it personally if I start crying." Talking about your feelings can help you to process them. | ||
| − | #Connect with others. Dealing with PTSD symptoms is extremely difficult. You might feel an impulse to withdraw socially, even from your loved ones. However, you should try to avoid isolating yourself.<ref>http://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/post-traumatic-stress-disorder.htm</ref> | + | #Connect with others. Dealing with PTSD symptoms is extremely difficult. You might feel an impulse to withdraw socially, even from your loved ones. However, you should try to avoid isolating yourself.<ref name="rf4">http://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/post-traumatic-stress-disorder.htm</ref> |
#*Instead of withdrawing, make an attempt to be around other people when you are coping with PTSD. A support system can help you deal with the trauma. | #*Instead of withdrawing, make an attempt to be around other people when you are coping with PTSD. A support system can help you deal with the trauma. | ||
#*PTSD can affect your nervous system, making you feel unpleasant symptoms, but being around people you trust may actually have a calming effect on your nerves. | #*PTSD can affect your nervous system, making you feel unpleasant symptoms, but being around people you trust may actually have a calming effect on your nerves. | ||
#*Turn to someone who is a good listener. You want to be able to talk about your experience without fear of judgement. | #*Turn to someone who is a good listener. You want to be able to talk about your experience without fear of judgement. | ||
#*If you feel unable to talk to someone you know, consider joining a support group. Being around other survivors can be therapeutic. | #*If you feel unable to talk to someone you know, consider joining a support group. Being around other survivors can be therapeutic. | ||
| − | #Identify your triggers. When you have PTSD, there are many things that can "trigger" negative emotions. You may find that you become upset in certain situations or that you avoid these situations entirely.<ref>http://www.therefuge-ahealingplace.com/ptsd-treatment/rape/</ref> Keep a journal where you record your triggers so that you can discuss them with your therapist. Common triggers include: | + | #Identify your triggers. When you have PTSD, there are many things that can "trigger" negative emotions. You may find that you become upset in certain situations or that you avoid these situations entirely.<ref name="rf5">http://www.therefuge-ahealingplace.com/ptsd-treatment/rape/</ref> Keep a journal where you record your triggers so that you can discuss them with your therapist. Common triggers include: |
#*going near the place where the rape occurred | #*going near the place where the rape occurred | ||
#*certain sounds, such as a specific song that was playing when the rape occurred | #*certain sounds, such as a specific song that was playing when the rape occurred | ||
#* certain words, such as your attacker’s name | #* certain words, such as your attacker’s name | ||
| − | #Deal with physiological arousal symptoms. A physiological symptom is one that has an impact on your body. For example, many rape survivors experience exaggerated responses. You might find yourself jumping in response to small noises that you would not have noticed before the rape.<ref>http://www.svfreenyc.org/survivors_factsheet_43.html</ref> | + | #Deal with physiological arousal symptoms. A physiological symptom is one that has an impact on your body. For example, many rape survivors experience exaggerated responses. You might find yourself jumping in response to small noises that you would not have noticed before the rape.<ref name="rf6">http://www.svfreenyc.org/survivors_factsheet_43.html</ref> |
#*You might also experience mood swings. It is not uncommon for rape survivors to feel rage at mild irritants, such as finding the milk carton empty. | #*You might also experience mood swings. It is not uncommon for rape survivors to feel rage at mild irritants, such as finding the milk carton empty. | ||
#*Be patient with yourself. Don't put pressure on yourself to stop having extreme reactions. | #*Be patient with yourself. Don't put pressure on yourself to stop having extreme reactions. | ||
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#*Sleep deprivation is another common physiological symptom. Many rape survivors have difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep. | #*Sleep deprivation is another common physiological symptom. Many rape survivors have difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep. | ||
#*Ask your doctor to help you deal with difficulty sleeping. He might recommend meditation or even medication. | #*Ask your doctor to help you deal with difficulty sleeping. He might recommend meditation or even medication. | ||
| − | #Take care of yourself. PTSD is both emotionally and physically draining. While you are coping with surviving a rape, it is important to take care of yourself. This includes trying to remain physically healthy.<ref | + | #Take care of yourself. PTSD is both emotionally and physically draining. While you are coping with surviving a rape, it is important to take care of yourself. This includes trying to remain physically healthy.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#*Eat a healthy diet. Try to get balanced amounts of lean proteins, complex carbohydrates, and plenty of colorful vegetables. | #*Eat a healthy diet. Try to get balanced amounts of lean proteins, complex carbohydrates, and plenty of colorful vegetables. | ||
#*Don't forget breakfast. Starting your day off with a nutritious meal can help give you the energy you need to make it through a tough day. Try Greek yogurt with granola. | #*Don't forget breakfast. Starting your day off with a nutritious meal can help give you the energy you need to make it through a tough day. Try Greek yogurt with granola. | ||
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===Coping With Emotional Trauma=== | ===Coping With Emotional Trauma=== | ||
| − | #Find ways to feel safe. One of the most common side effects of rape is not feeling safe. You might feel mild feelings of unease, or you might feel outright panic at times. Remember that it is normal to feel afraid.<ref | + | #Find ways to feel safe. One of the most common side effects of rape is not feeling safe. You might feel mild feelings of unease, or you might feel outright panic at times. Remember that it is normal to feel afraid.<ref name="rf5" /> |
#*Take steps to make yourself feel better when you are not feeling safe. For example, consider installing a home security system. That can make you feel safer. | #*Take steps to make yourself feel better when you are not feeling safe. For example, consider installing a home security system. That can make you feel safer. | ||
#*Avoid triggers. If you feel uneasy walking after dark, arrange your schedule to avoid having to do that. | #*Avoid triggers. If you feel uneasy walking after dark, arrange your schedule to avoid having to do that. | ||
#*Ask your loved ones to help you make a safety plan. For example, if you live alone, ask a sibling to stay with you as you begin the healing process. | #*Ask your loved ones to help you make a safety plan. For example, if you live alone, ask a sibling to stay with you as you begin the healing process. | ||
| − | #Handle social withdrawal symptoms. Rape survivors often use "numbing" to cope with the emotional trauma. You may feel like avoiding other people and even avoiding interacting in daily activities.<ref | + | #Handle social withdrawal symptoms. Rape survivors often use "numbing" to cope with the emotional trauma. You may feel like avoiding other people and even avoiding interacting in daily activities.<ref name="rf5" /> |
#*Acknowledge what you are experiencing. Tell yourself, "What I am feeling is normal. I will find a way to cope." | #*Acknowledge what you are experiencing. Tell yourself, "What I am feeling is normal. I will find a way to cope." | ||
#*Start small. If you're having a particularly tough day, take things step by step. | #*Start small. If you're having a particularly tough day, take things step by step. | ||
#*If everything feels daunting, choose a small task to focus on. For example, tell yourself, "I will get up and I will eat breakfast. I'll decide on my next step after that." | #*If everything feels daunting, choose a small task to focus on. For example, tell yourself, "I will get up and I will eat breakfast. I'll decide on my next step after that." | ||
#*Let your friends and family know what's going on. Your loved ones will worry if you withdraw suddenly. Try sending a text that says, "I need to take some time for myself today. I'll try to talk to you tomorrow." | #*Let your friends and family know what's going on. Your loved ones will worry if you withdraw suddenly. Try sending a text that says, "I need to take some time for myself today. I'll try to talk to you tomorrow." | ||
| − | #Reconnect with your surroundings during flashbacks. A flashback is when memories of a traumatic experience make it seem as though you are reliving the trauma. Many rape survivors have flashbacks. There are some things you can do to make dealing with flashbacks a bit easier to handle.<ref>https://rainn.org/effects-of-sexual-assault/flashbacks</ref> | + | #Reconnect with your surroundings during flashbacks. A flashback is when memories of a traumatic experience make it seem as though you are reliving the trauma. Many rape survivors have flashbacks. There are some things you can do to make dealing with flashbacks a bit easier to handle.<ref name="rf7">https://rainn.org/effects-of-sexual-assault/flashbacks</ref> |
#*Use your five senses to help you return to the present. Look around, and visually connect to the present. | #*Use your five senses to help you return to the present. Look around, and visually connect to the present. | ||
#*Listen to the sounds around you and try to locate a familiar scent. This should also help you to disconnect from the memory and return to reality. | #*Listen to the sounds around you and try to locate a familiar scent. This should also help you to disconnect from the memory and return to reality. | ||
#*Touch something that is either hot or cold. Grabbing an ice cube or a hot cup of coffee can help you to exit the flashback. | #*Touch something that is either hot or cold. Grabbing an ice cube or a hot cup of coffee can help you to exit the flashback. | ||
#*Use your breath. Breathe slowly and deeply. This will help regulate your nervous system and calm your body's panic impulse. | #*Use your breath. Breathe slowly and deeply. This will help regulate your nervous system and calm your body's panic impulse. | ||
| − | #Find individual coping mechanisms. There are many symptoms of PTSD that rape survivors share. However, it is important to remember that your experience is unique. Try to find coping mechanisms that are especially effective for you.<ref | + | #Find individual coping mechanisms. There are many symptoms of PTSD that rape survivors share. However, it is important to remember that your experience is unique. Try to find coping mechanisms that are especially effective for you.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#*For example, maybe you have a favorite song that has always been a mood lifter. Try listening to that song when you are coping with intense symptoms. | #*For example, maybe you have a favorite song that has always been a mood lifter. Try listening to that song when you are coping with intense symptoms. | ||
#*Talk about your process. Share what you are experiencing with your family, and ask if they have any suggestions about new things you can try. | #*Talk about your process. Share what you are experiencing with your family, and ask if they have any suggestions about new things you can try. | ||
#*Find a new physical activity to do. Exercise can help to stabilize your emotions. Try going to a yoga class with a friend. | #*Find a new physical activity to do. Exercise can help to stabilize your emotions. Try going to a yoga class with a friend. | ||
===Exploring Other Options for Treatment=== | ===Exploring Other Options for Treatment=== | ||
| − | #Try Experiential Therapy. When you are considering different treatment types, it is a good idea to look into all of your options. Therapy is critical in furthering the healing process. Look into Experiential Therapy to see if it might be right for you.<ref | + | #Try Experiential Therapy. When you are considering different treatment types, it is a good idea to look into all of your options. Therapy is critical in furthering the healing process. Look into Experiential Therapy to see if it might be right for you.<ref name="rf5" /> |
#*Therapy is a process that differs greatly for each individual. Experiential Therapy explores different activities to find ones that are most therapeutic for you. | #*Therapy is a process that differs greatly for each individual. Experiential Therapy explores different activities to find ones that are most therapeutic for you. | ||
#*Sensation based techniques are common in this type of treatment. That means you will use a variety of activities to get in touch with your senses and your emotions. | #*Sensation based techniques are common in this type of treatment. That means you will use a variety of activities to get in touch with your senses and your emotions. | ||
#*Two of the most common types of Experiential Therapy are music and art therapy. A therapist can help you cope with trauma through the use of creating a painting, for example. | #*Two of the most common types of Experiential Therapy are music and art therapy. A therapist can help you cope with trauma through the use of creating a painting, for example. | ||
#*You can also ask about less common techniques. For example, equine therapy has proven very effective for some rape survivors. | #*You can also ask about less common techniques. For example, equine therapy has proven very effective for some rape survivors. | ||
| − | #Look into family therapy. Therapy is an important part of the healing process. Having your family and friends act is a support system can be just as beneficial. Consider asking your family to join you in some of your therapy sessions.<ref | + | #Look into family therapy. Therapy is an important part of the healing process. Having your family and friends act is a support system can be just as beneficial. Consider asking your family to join you in some of your therapy sessions.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#*Family therapy might mean that you have both individual and group sessions. Before having them join you in session, make sure that your family members are hoping to learning about your healing process. | #*Family therapy might mean that you have both individual and group sessions. Before having them join you in session, make sure that your family members are hoping to learning about your healing process. | ||
#*You can try saying something like, "Mom, you are an important part of my life. I think it would be really useful if you could see what my therapist and I are working on and hopefully, find a way to participate." | #*You can try saying something like, "Mom, you are an important part of my life. I think it would be really useful if you could see what my therapist and I are working on and hopefully, find a way to participate." | ||
#*Joint sessions can help your family members better understand what you are coping with. It can also help you to voice any relationship concerns that you may have. | #*Joint sessions can help your family members better understand what you are coping with. It can also help you to voice any relationship concerns that you may have. | ||
| − | #Ask about medications. Therapy and support systems are excellent ways to further your healing process. Sometimes, though, you might need additional help. Ask your doctor or therapist is medication would be helpful in helping you deal with your PTSD.<ref | + | #Ask about medications. Therapy and support systems are excellent ways to further your healing process. Sometimes, though, you might need additional help. Ask your doctor or therapist is medication would be helpful in helping you deal with your PTSD.<ref name="rf4" /> |
#*There are not medications that treat PTSD specifically. However, your doctor may be able to prescribe something that will help you cope with the symptoms. | #*There are not medications that treat PTSD specifically. However, your doctor may be able to prescribe something that will help you cope with the symptoms. | ||
#*For example, medication may be able to help treat depression or anxiety. You might find it easier to manage your symptoms with medical help. | #*For example, medication may be able to help treat depression or anxiety. You might find it easier to manage your symptoms with medical help. | ||
