Stop a French Kiss
Template:StubOk, it's gonna happen one day. Your partner will French Kiss you before you're ready. Body language is the most important here, because you don't want to act hurtful or stupid.
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Steps
- Consider trying to save the kiss first. Is it the style, stinky breath, person, mood, hand placement, or position you're in? Try to fix this first. You may not be able to have the kiss, but pointing out the problem is always good! If you don't want to kiss regardless, continue the process.
- Ok, so you just don't think you're ready? No problem! Trying is good, so don' give up yet, unless know that you're not ready for this big step with this person yet.
- Create a physical distance.
- Girls, place your best hand on his chest and gently push him away, clearly stating not now. Pull back and lean against him, signaling not to be alarmed.
- Boys, gently draw back. Then sit up straight and gaze into her eyes and close with a small kiss. Then embrace her.
- Always take careful consideration of your partner's mood. Explain, if only he/she is saddened, that you aren't ready yet.
- Kiss again when you're ready to. Don't completely wreck something like that because of one bad experience.
Tips
- Soften your voice and be gentle. This can hurt.
Warnings
- Choose wording carefully.
