Difference between revisions of "Bring a Shy Guy out of His Shell"

{{fa}}It can be a little tricky to bring a shy guy out of his shell, especially if you're outgoing and don't know where he's coming from. However, if you want to make a shy guy more talkative and comfortable, you have to work on asking questions that catch his interest and on letting him know that you like him so he feels more open around you. There are many tactics that can work for making a shy guy feel more comfortable, but you should know that it's hard to truly change a person who is really introverted. Still, if you put in the effort, you can go a long way in bringing a shy guy out of his shell and having a great time with him anywhere you go.

{{fa}}It can be a little tricky to bring a shy guy out of his shell, especially if you're outgoing and don't know where he's coming from. However, if you want to make a shy guy more talkative and comfortable, you have to work on asking questions that catch his interest and on letting him know that you like him so he feels more open around you. There are many tactics that can work for making a shy guy feel more comfortable, but you should know that it's hard to truly change a person who is really introverted. Still, if you put in the effort, you can go a long way in bringing a shy guy out of his shell and having a great time with him anywhere you go.

== Steps ==

== Steps ==

# See him when he is in his element. If he plays sports, go and watch the game too. Be there as he finishes a marathon. If he is giving a talk, try to arrange to be in the audience. When a shy guy is in his element, he will be at the height of his charisma and at a high point of self-confidence; he will be "in the zone" and less nervous, feeling very good about himself. And this means he will feel empowered to make a move on you if he is really interested. Now, If he is a co-worker try to keep it simple. Say 'Hello' with a big smile when you see him. That will have him thinking about you. Try to keep the questions limited.

# See him when he is in his element. If he plays sports, go and watch the game too. Be there as he finishes a marathon. If he is giving a talk, try to arrange to be in the audience. When a shy guy is in his element, he will be at the height of his charisma and at a high point of self-confidence; he will be "in the zone" and less nervous, feeling very good about himself. And this means he will feel empowered to make a move on you if he is really interested. Now, If he is a co-worker try to keep it simple. Say 'Hello' with a big smile when you see him. That will have him thinking about you. Try to keep the questions limited.