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| − | + | Is there a girl you'd like be friends with? You like talking to her and she makes you laugh, so why not? She is fun to be around, and you'd like to just hang out with her more. Maybe she even has cute friends! This is how you can do it. | |
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== Steps == | == Steps == | ||
===Sparking a Friendship=== | ===Sparking a Friendship=== | ||
#Try to be in some of the same places. In order to become friends with a girl, you have to become familiar to her first. A girl may not be comfortable with a stranger walking up to her and starting a conversation out of the blue, but if she's seen you around and you've seen her around, that barrier falls. You're no longer scary. Are you in a few of her classes? Do you share a hobby? Great. | #Try to be in some of the same places. In order to become friends with a girl, you have to become familiar to her first. A girl may not be comfortable with a stranger walking up to her and starting a conversation out of the blue, but if she's seen you around and you've seen her around, that barrier falls. You're no longer scary. Are you in a few of her classes? Do you share a hobby? Great. | ||
| − | #*It's actually proven that humans like things the more they are exposed to them. It's the reason the same song gets played over and over on the radio and why commercials get repeated endlessly. So the more she's exposed to ''you'', the more she'll be inclined to like you. In psychology, this is called the mere-exposure effect (in case you were curious).<ref>http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/mere_exposure.htm</ref> | + | #*It's actually proven that humans like things the more they are exposed to them. It's the reason the same song gets played over and over on the radio and why commercials get repeated endlessly. So the more she's exposed to ''you'', the more she'll be inclined to like you. In psychology, this is called the mere-exposure effect (in case you were curious).<ref name="rf15483">http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/mere_exposure.htm</ref> |
#*If you have to, put yourself in her line of fire. Does she always sit towards the left side of the classroom? Can she be found at a certain Starbucks on Wednesday afternoons? If you know where she'll be, be there once in a while. As long as you're not breathing down her neck, you're on the right track. | #*If you have to, put yourself in her line of fire. Does she always sit towards the left side of the classroom? Can she be found at a certain Starbucks on Wednesday afternoons? If you know where she'll be, be there once in a while. As long as you're not breathing down her neck, you're on the right track. | ||
#Interact with her. Okay, now that you both know who each other is and that you have a certain something in common, you've got to interact with her. It can be as simple as a passing remark about your teacher's ridiculous tie or a question about what time practice is next week. Don't be afraid to start off small -- after all, you've gotta start somewhere. | #Interact with her. Okay, now that you both know who each other is and that you have a certain something in common, you've got to interact with her. It can be as simple as a passing remark about your teacher's ridiculous tie or a question about what time practice is next week. Don't be afraid to start off small -- after all, you've gotta start somewhere. | ||
