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#Love yourself. It may sound cheesy, but if you are a woman, loving yourself and practicing self-care empowers you. When you love yourself, you are essentially saying “my humanity matters.” | #Love yourself. It may sound cheesy, but if you are a woman, loving yourself and practicing self-care empowers you. When you love yourself, you are essentially saying “my humanity matters.” | ||
#*With this is loving your body, even (especially!) if it does not fit the media’s stereotype of perfection. Feminists often fight the misconception that an attractive female has one particular set of traits. | #*With this is loving your body, even (especially!) if it does not fit the media’s stereotype of perfection. Feminists often fight the misconception that an attractive female has one particular set of traits. | ||
| − | #*This does not mean that you can’t spend time making yourself look pretty. You can wear makeup or high heels and be a feminist, but you don’t have to!<ref>http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tamara-shayne-kagel/the-feminists-dilemma-why-we-cant-stop-caring-about-how-we-look_b_4761609.html</ref> | + | #*This does not mean that you can’t spend time making yourself look pretty. You can wear makeup or high heels and be a feminist, but you don’t have to!<ref name="rf1">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tamara-shayne-kagel/the-feminists-dilemma-why-we-cant-stop-caring-about-how-we-look_b_4761609.html</ref> |
| − | #Share equal responsibilities in your relationship. It can be common for members of heterosexual relationships and marriages to slip into traditional gender roles.<ref>http://www.npr.org/2014/03/11/289018821/for-working-moms-key-to-balance-may-lie-in-elusive-leisure-time</ref> If you want to stay home with your children while your husband works, that’s fine! You can still be a feminist! However, you and your partner should make mindful decisions about household responsibilities. | + | #Share equal responsibilities in your relationship. It can be common for members of heterosexual relationships and marriages to slip into traditional gender roles.<ref name="rf2">http://www.npr.org/2014/03/11/289018821/for-working-moms-key-to-balance-may-lie-in-elusive-leisure-time</ref> If you want to stay home with your children while your husband works, that’s fine! You can still be a feminist! However, you and your partner should make mindful decisions about household responsibilities. |
#*If you do most of the cooking, perhaps your partner should clean up the kitchen after dinner. If your partner does laundry on the weekends, you can contribute in other ways, like by vacuuming. As long as you’re making decisions about responsibilities based on choice and personal preference, and not on gender stereotypes, you’ll be incorporating feminism into your lifestyle. | #*If you do most of the cooking, perhaps your partner should clean up the kitchen after dinner. If your partner does laundry on the weekends, you can contribute in other ways, like by vacuuming. As long as you’re making decisions about responsibilities based on choice and personal preference, and not on gender stereotypes, you’ll be incorporating feminism into your lifestyle. | ||
| − | #Raise your children to believe in gender equality. There are many ways to raise children to be feminists. A good start is encouraging them to embrace their individual interests and passions, regardless of their gender. You can also teach them to question gender assumptions (such as why girls’ items are invariably pink and purple, but boys’ items are never pink). Help them make life goals that do not hinge upon their genders.<ref>http://naturalparentsnetwork.com/21-ways-raise-feminist-child/</ref> | + | #Raise your children to believe in gender equality. There are many ways to raise children to be feminists. A good start is encouraging them to embrace their individual interests and passions, regardless of their gender. You can also teach them to question gender assumptions (such as why girls’ items are invariably pink and purple, but boys’ items are never pink). Help them make life goals that do not hinge upon their genders.<ref name="rf3">http://naturalparentsnetwork.com/21-ways-raise-feminist-child/</ref> |
#*It is also important to emphasize both the mother’s and the father’s role as a parent. This will minimize the assumption that mothers parent while fathers work. | #*It is also important to emphasize both the mother’s and the father’s role as a parent. This will minimize the assumption that mothers parent while fathers work. | ||
| − | #Maintain positive equality in the workplace. In an ideal work, workplaces would all be blind to gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, and other life choices. In reality, this is not always the case. Maintain professionalism in the work place and always perform your best; if you feel that you are being discriminated against, (ie: paid less for similar work or passed over for a promotion) due to your gender. Do not be afraid to speak out about the inequity.<ref>https://www.aclu.org/womens-rights/employment</ref> | + | #Maintain positive equality in the workplace. In an ideal work, workplaces would all be blind to gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, and other life choices. In reality, this is not always the case. Maintain professionalism in the work place and always perform your best; if you feel that you are being discriminated against, (ie: paid less for similar work or passed over for a promotion) due to your gender. Do not be afraid to speak out about the inequity.<ref name="rf4">https://www.aclu.org/womens-rights/employment</ref> |
#*If you have a managerial position, ensure fairness and equity in hiring, pay, and promotion policies. | #*If you have a managerial position, ensure fairness and equity in hiring, pay, and promotion policies. | ||
| − | #Empower women. There is an unfortunate modern tendency for women to judge and belittle the choices of other women, (particularly on social media). To be a feminist, support and empower other women instead of judging them. Realize that women who make decisions that differ from your own have likely put as much thought into those decisions as you have.<ref>http://www.blogher.com/rebuttal-amy-glass-one-looks-down-young-women-husbands-and-kids</ref> | + | #Empower women. There is an unfortunate modern tendency for women to judge and belittle the choices of other women, (particularly on social media). To be a feminist, support and empower other women instead of judging them. Realize that women who make decisions that differ from your own have likely put as much thought into those decisions as you have.<ref name="rf5">http://www.blogher.com/rebuttal-amy-glass-one-looks-down-young-women-husbands-and-kids</ref> |
===Promoting Global Gender Equality=== | ===Promoting Global Gender Equality=== | ||
| − | #Recognize systemic inequalities. An important part of being an informed feminist is cultivating an awareness of systemic prejudices against women around the world. You cannot stop every individual from having a particular opinion about women, but you can expose systemic inequalities.<ref> http://www.feministfrequency.com/2015/03/how-to-be-a-feminist-panel-at-all-about-women/</ref> | + | #Recognize systemic inequalities. An important part of being an informed feminist is cultivating an awareness of systemic prejudices against women around the world. You cannot stop every individual from having a particular opinion about women, but you can expose systemic inequalities.<ref name="rf6"> http://www.feministfrequency.com/2015/03/how-to-be-a-feminist-panel-at-all-about-women/</ref> |
#*You can support organizations that provide suppressed women in other cultures education and opportunities. | #*You can support organizations that provide suppressed women in other cultures education and opportunities. | ||
#*You can notice trends such as the discrepancy between the percentage of politicians or world leaders who are female, versus the female population of the world. | #*You can notice trends such as the discrepancy between the percentage of politicians or world leaders who are female, versus the female population of the world. | ||
| − | #*Realize that in systems that discriminate against women in the areas of education or employment, women’s economic lives become dependent on others in power, which takes power from them.<ref> http://europeandcis.undp.org/blog/2014/02/19/roma-women-exposing-inequality/</ref> | + | #*Realize that in systems that discriminate against women in the areas of education or employment, women’s economic lives become dependent on others in power, which takes power from them.<ref name="rf7"> http://europeandcis.undp.org/blog/2014/02/19/roma-women-exposing-inequality/</ref> |
#Fight against gender discrimination. Go to rallies that promote women’s equality. Join organizations that fight for the equality of women in your area as well as other countries. Speaking out about inequality is an important step towards achieving equality. You can find resources for feminist activism http://feminist.com/activism/ here. | #Fight against gender discrimination. Go to rallies that promote women’s equality. Join organizations that fight for the equality of women in your area as well as other countries. Speaking out about inequality is an important step towards achieving equality. You can find resources for feminist activism http://feminist.com/activism/ here. | ||
| − | #Vote for pro-women political leaders. One way that you can be a feminist and support feminist causes is to vote with women’s rights in mind.<ref> http://www.huffingtonpost.com/xandra-kayden/post_1139_b_774374.html?</ref> Voting for politicians who advocate for women in the workplace and women’s healthcare rights can put your feminist beliefs into action. | + | #Vote for pro-women political leaders. One way that you can be a feminist and support feminist causes is to vote with women’s rights in mind.<ref name="rf8"> http://www.huffingtonpost.com/xandra-kayden/post_1139_b_774374.html?</ref> Voting for politicians who advocate for women in the workplace and women’s healthcare rights can put your feminist beliefs into action. |
#*Additionally, you may want to find out if a candidate (male or female) has women working on his or her campaign staff. Advocating for women’s employment rights is less meaningful if a candidate doesn’t actually employ women. | #*Additionally, you may want to find out if a candidate (male or female) has women working on his or her campaign staff. Advocating for women’s employment rights is less meaningful if a candidate doesn’t actually employ women. | ||
| − | #Support the rights of women and men. Part of being a feminist is supporting the rights of everyone to do what they want in their lives and careers, even if it means breaking traditional gender stereotypes.<ref> http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/07/24/you-don-t-hate-feminism-you-just-don-t-understand-it.html</ref> That means believing that a mom or a dad can choose to stay at home to raise young children. It means believing that a man or a woman can become a CEO of a company or a politician or president. | + | #Support the rights of women and men. Part of being a feminist is supporting the rights of everyone to do what they want in their lives and careers, even if it means breaking traditional gender stereotypes.<ref name="rf9"> http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/07/24/you-don-t-hate-feminism-you-just-don-t-understand-it.html</ref> That means believing that a mom or a dad can choose to stay at home to raise young children. It means believing that a man or a woman can become a CEO of a company or a politician or president. |
===Learning about Feminism=== | ===Learning about Feminism=== | ||
| − | #Understand feminism. A feminist believes that men and women should have equal opportunities and may spend time sharing and cultivating those beliefs. Feminism is not about rejecting female sexuality or upholding women as superior to men; it’s about challenging preconceptions about gender roles.<ref> http://www.huffingtonpost.com/leah-kashar/rules-of-feminism_b_4191116.html?</ref> It’s about making observations and asking questions like, “why are pilots usually male, while flight attendants are usually female?” | + | #Understand feminism. A feminist believes that men and women should have equal opportunities and may spend time sharing and cultivating those beliefs. Feminism is not about rejecting female sexuality or upholding women as superior to men; it’s about challenging preconceptions about gender roles.<ref name="rf10"> http://www.huffingtonpost.com/leah-kashar/rules-of-feminism_b_4191116.html?</ref> It’s about making observations and asking questions like, “why are pilots usually male, while flight attendants are usually female?” |
| − | #Explore common misconceptions about feminism. There are many misconceptions about feminism.<ref> http://www.stylist.co.uk/people/caitlin-morans-guide-to-being-a-modern-feminist</ref> Some people hear the word “feminist” and imagine a woman who wears her hair short, hates men, and acts aggressively all the time.<ref | + | #Explore common misconceptions about feminism. There are many misconceptions about feminism.<ref name="rf11"> http://www.stylist.co.uk/people/caitlin-morans-guide-to-being-a-modern-feminist</ref> Some people hear the word “feminist” and imagine a woman who wears her hair short, hates men, and acts aggressively all the time.<ref name="rf10" /> However, a feminist can also be a stay-at-home-mom raising 4 kids and spending her days cooking and cleaning. A feminist can also be a man. |
| − | #*Feminists do not have to remain unmarried, hate men, or be lesbians.<ref | + | #*Feminists do not have to remain unmarried, hate men, or be lesbians.<ref name="rf9" /> |
| − | #*Feminists do not have to dress or act a certain way.<ref | + | #*Feminists do not have to dress or act a certain way.<ref name="rf9" /> |
| − | #Study the history of the feminist movement. To really understand feminism, you may want to brush up on the different waves of the feminist movement.<ref> http://history.house.gov/Exhibitions-and-Publications/WIC/Historical-Essays/No-Lady/Womens-Rights/</ref> <ref>http://www.history.ac.uk/makinghistory/resources/articles/womens_history.html</ref> Learn about the most influential women leaders of women’s the suffrage movement. Learn about women’s equality issues such as equal pay for equal work,<ref>https://www.aclu.org/womens-rights/equal-pay-equal-work-pass-paycheck-fairness-act</ref> tax benefits for childcare,<ref>http://www.irs.gov/Help-&-Resources/Tools-&-FAQs/FAQs-for-Individuals/Frequently-Asked-Tax-Questions-&-Answers/Child-Care-Credit,-Other-Credits/Child-and-Dependent-Care-Credit-&-Flexible-Benefit-Plans</ref> and maternity leave policies.<ref>http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2014/dec/03/-sp-america-only-developed-country-paid-maternity-leave</ref> | + | #Study the history of the feminist movement. To really understand feminism, you may want to brush up on the different waves of the feminist movement.<ref name="rf12"> http://history.house.gov/Exhibitions-and-Publications/WIC/Historical-Essays/No-Lady/Womens-Rights/</ref> <ref name="rf13">http://www.history.ac.uk/makinghistory/resources/articles/womens_history.html</ref> Learn about the most influential women leaders of women’s the suffrage movement. Learn about women’s equality issues such as equal pay for equal work,<ref name="rf14">https://www.aclu.org/womens-rights/equal-pay-equal-work-pass-paycheck-fairness-act</ref> tax benefits for childcare,<ref name="rf15">http://www.irs.gov/Help-&-Resources/Tools-&-FAQs/FAQs-for-Individuals/Frequently-Asked-Tax-Questions-&-Answers/Child-Care-Credit,-Other-Credits/Child-and-Dependent-Care-Credit-&-Flexible-Benefit-Plans</ref> and maternity leave policies.<ref name="rf16">http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2014/dec/03/-sp-america-only-developed-country-paid-maternity-leave</ref> |
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