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| − | What does it mean to be a woman? Our appearance isn’t always determined by our chromosomes. Some men have typically feminine traits, and some women have masculine features, too. Our gender in made up of a variety of beliefs, characteristics, and behaviors.<ref>http://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sexual-orientation-gender/gender-gender-identity</ref> Passing as a woman doesn’t just involve wearing makeup and stockings. There is a complex set of traits to keep in mind as well. For individuals assigned male at birth, blending as a woman can be a challenging, even frightening endeavor. Whether you are transgender or just having fun, this article will help you achieve convincing femininity. | + | What does it mean to be a woman? Our appearance isn’t always determined by our chromosomes. Some men have typically feminine traits, and some women have masculine features, too. Our gender in made up of a variety of beliefs, characteristics, and behaviors.<ref name="rf1">http://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sexual-orientation-gender/gender-gender-identity</ref> Passing as a woman doesn’t just involve wearing makeup and stockings. There is a complex set of traits to keep in mind as well. For individuals assigned male at birth, blending as a woman can be a challenging, even frightening endeavor. Whether you are transgender or just having fun, this article will help you achieve convincing femininity. |
[[Category:Gender Expression]] | [[Category:Gender Expression]] | ||
== Steps == | == Steps == | ||
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#*Use moisturizer after shaving. This will give your skin a soft, feminine feel while soothing freshly shaven skin. Choose a scent you like, too. | #*Use moisturizer after shaving. This will give your skin a soft, feminine feel while soothing freshly shaven skin. Choose a scent you like, too. | ||
#Pluck your eyebrows. Women generally have thinner eyebrows than men. Remove stray hairs by plucking them firmly from their roots. For highly stylized brows, you may want to seek a professional, but plucking eyebrows can easily be done at home. | #Pluck your eyebrows. Women generally have thinner eyebrows than men. Remove stray hairs by plucking them firmly from their roots. For highly stylized brows, you may want to seek a professional, but plucking eyebrows can easily be done at home. | ||
| − | #*The start of your brows should be about one inch above the inner corner of your eye.<ref> http://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/pluck-eyebrows?page=1</ref> Remove the strays in between. | + | #*The start of your brows should be about one inch above the inner corner of your eye.<ref name="rf2"> http://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/pluck-eyebrows?page=1</ref> Remove the strays in between. |
| − | #*The end of your brows should be about one inch above the outer corner of your eye.<ref>http://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/pluck-eyebrows?page=1</ref> Pluck any stray hairs that come after this edge. | + | #*The end of your brows should be about one inch above the outer corner of your eye.<ref name="rf3">http://www.womenshealthmag.com/beauty/pluck-eyebrows?page=1</ref> Pluck any stray hairs that come after this edge. |
| − | #* Pluck hairs from under the brows until a natural arch-shape is achieved. The arch should peak above the outer rim of your eye.<ref | + | #* Pluck hairs from under the brows until a natural arch-shape is achieved. The arch should peak above the outer rim of your eye.<ref name="rf3" /> Remove stray hairs along the bottom of your eyebrow’s arch. Do this part the slowest, and be sure your brows are parallel in thickness. |
#*It is natural for the skin on your face to become red and sometimes swollen after plucking. This will quickly fade. | #*It is natural for the skin on your face to become red and sometimes swollen after plucking. This will quickly fade. | ||
#Manicure your nails. Ensure that they are clean and trim. Though getting clean nails generally happens in the shower but could require you to use a nail cleaner to remove dirt and grime. Use a nail board to file down uneven edges of your nails. | #Manicure your nails. Ensure that they are clean and trim. Though getting clean nails generally happens in the shower but could require you to use a nail cleaner to remove dirt and grime. Use a nail board to file down uneven edges of your nails. | ||
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#*Practice different styles well in advanced of any event. There is nothing more stressful than trying a new hairdo on a deadline! | #*Practice different styles well in advanced of any event. There is nothing more stressful than trying a new hairdo on a deadline! | ||
#*If you’ll be passing as a woman for an extended period of time, grow your hair to the length you desire. | #*If you’ll be passing as a woman for an extended period of time, grow your hair to the length you desire. | ||
| − | #*Buying a wig is also a good idea. Wigs come in a variety of cuts, colors, textures, and lengths, so you can find a wig that fits your style.<ref>http://www.wigs.com/look-learn/wig-buyers-guide</ref> | + | #*Buying a wig is also a good idea. Wigs come in a variety of cuts, colors, textures, and lengths, so you can find a wig that fits your style.<ref name="rf4">http://www.wigs.com/look-learn/wig-buyers-guide</ref> |
#Apply your foundation. This step varies vastly from one person to another, but overall, foundation is the most important part of passing as a woman. It will cover up any blemishes and will mask a five-o-clock shadow. Find a cover-up and/or [[Pick the Right Foundation Makeup|liquid foundation]] that closely matches your skin tone, plus a matching powder to "set" the make-up, making it look naturally feminine. | #Apply your foundation. This step varies vastly from one person to another, but overall, foundation is the most important part of passing as a woman. It will cover up any blemishes and will mask a five-o-clock shadow. Find a cover-up and/or [[Pick the Right Foundation Makeup|liquid foundation]] that closely matches your skin tone, plus a matching powder to "set" the make-up, making it look naturally feminine. | ||
#*Visit beauty stores that provide help from makeup professionals to point you in the right direction. This is very important if you’ve never used foundation before. They will let you know what brand works best with your skin and budget. | #*Visit beauty stores that provide help from makeup professionals to point you in the right direction. This is very important if you’ve never used foundation before. They will let you know what brand works best with your skin and budget. | ||
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#Pick an outfit. Dressing like a woman involves planning your look from head to toe, beginning with your top or dress. The color choice will vary depending on your personal style. If you’re going for a business look, choose more neutral colors, but if you’re going for a night out clubbing, go for bright colors and patterns. Also, choosing a top or dress that flatters your figure is important. | #Pick an outfit. Dressing like a woman involves planning your look from head to toe, beginning with your top or dress. The color choice will vary depending on your personal style. If you’re going for a business look, choose more neutral colors, but if you’re going for a night out clubbing, go for bright colors and patterns. Also, choosing a top or dress that flatters your figure is important. | ||
#*Choose a top or dress that best suits your frame. Plunging necklines draw attention from broad shoulders, so these are often good choices for passing as a woman. Knowing your body and working with it is essential to passing. | #*Choose a top or dress that best suits your frame. Plunging necklines draw attention from broad shoulders, so these are often good choices for passing as a woman. Knowing your body and working with it is essential to passing. | ||
| − | #*If you are more full-figured and have a larger midsection, don’t get a shirt that shows your belly.<ref>http://plussizewomens.lifetips.com//cat/64623/body-types-full-figured-all-over/index.html</ref> Fabrics that stretch like polyester can be very comfortable. | + | #*If you are more full-figured and have a larger midsection, don’t get a shirt that shows your belly.<ref name="rf5">http://plussizewomens.lifetips.com//cat/64623/body-types-full-figured-all-over/index.html</ref> Fabrics that stretch like polyester can be very comfortable. |
#*If your arms are very bulky, consider using a shawl to cover them when wearing sleeveless outfits. | #*If your arms are very bulky, consider using a shawl to cover them when wearing sleeveless outfits. | ||
#*Corsets, gaffs, breast forms, and other specialized bodyshapers are also available. | #*Corsets, gaffs, breast forms, and other specialized bodyshapers are also available. | ||
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#Reflect on your look. Stand in front of a full length mirror and turn around so you can see yourself from every angle. Decide if there is any part of your outfit that looks unfashionable or unflattering. If there is, change! Passing for a woman involves a bit of extra time getting ready Give yourself about an extra half hour to get ready just in case you need to do any last minute changes. | #Reflect on your look. Stand in front of a full length mirror and turn around so you can see yourself from every angle. Decide if there is any part of your outfit that looks unfashionable or unflattering. If there is, change! Passing for a woman involves a bit of extra time getting ready Give yourself about an extra half hour to get ready just in case you need to do any last minute changes. | ||
===Acting Like a Woman === | ===Acting Like a Woman === | ||
| − | #Be sensitive. Acting like a woman means getting in touch with traits often associated with femininity, which include empathy, honesty, affection and being nurturing.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/real-women/201504/are-you-rejecting-your-feminine-traits</ref> Watching movies and reading books centered on strong female characters will help you understand these traits even better. Remember that overall, women are known for being gentle and caring. | + | #Be sensitive. Acting like a woman means getting in touch with traits often associated with femininity, which include empathy, honesty, affection and being nurturing.<ref name="rf6">https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/real-women/201504/are-you-rejecting-your-feminine-traits</ref> Watching movies and reading books centered on strong female characters will help you understand these traits even better. Remember that overall, women are known for being gentle and caring. |
#*One of the easiest ways to understand feminine traits is to spend time around ladies. Drum up your female friends and set up a book club, wine night, or other weekly time to hang out. | #*One of the easiest ways to understand feminine traits is to spend time around ladies. Drum up your female friends and set up a book club, wine night, or other weekly time to hang out. | ||
#*Empathize with others and be sensitive to those around you. | #*Empathize with others and be sensitive to those around you. | ||
#*Women aren’t known for their aggression, so try to be accepting and assertive in a gentle way. | #*Women aren’t known for their aggression, so try to be accepting and assertive in a gentle way. | ||
| − | #Be graceful. Improve your posture, and realize that feminine gestures, even slight ones, are very important. It is well-known that women often gesture while speaking, which adds femininity and personality to any conversation.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/he-speaks-she-speaks/201010/gendered-gestures.</ref> Note the gestures and facial expressions of the women around you and try to imitate how they move. | + | #Be graceful. Improve your posture, and realize that feminine gestures, even slight ones, are very important. It is well-known that women often gesture while speaking, which adds femininity and personality to any conversation.<ref name="rf7">https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/he-speaks-she-speaks/201010/gendered-gestures.</ref> Note the gestures and facial expressions of the women around you and try to imitate how they move. |
#*Smiling and playing with hair are two common feminine gestures. Practice these in the mirror until they look natural. | #*Smiling and playing with hair are two common feminine gestures. Practice these in the mirror until they look natural. | ||
#*Try to make smaller, more graceful movements as opposed to big steps and heavy gestures. This will help you move with ease. | #*Try to make smaller, more graceful movements as opposed to big steps and heavy gestures. This will help you move with ease. | ||
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== Warnings == | == Warnings == | ||
| − | *This article is aimed at a largely western audience. Different cultures have different gender expectations!<ref>http://http://www.caragillis.com/LBCC/GenderRoles.htm</ref> | + | *This article is aimed at a largely western audience. Different cultures have different gender expectations!<ref name="rf8">http://http://www.caragillis.com/LBCC/GenderRoles.htm</ref> |
== Related Articles == | == Related Articles == | ||
*[[Come to Terms with Being Transgender As a Teen]] | *[[Come to Terms with Being Transgender As a Teen]] | ||
