Difference between revisions of "Turn Down a Drink"

#  Don't attend future parties like this. If you have a hard time being firm, or this host has a hard time taking "no" for an answer, just don't go next time.  When friends ask why you aren't attending, tell the truth.  Say, "Well, last time I went, it seemed all anyone cared about was seeing me drink.  I don't care to party that way (with alcohol or drugs) any more.  Until I feel sure that my "no" will be accepted and I won't be badgered all night, I'm not going to go."  That should take care of the problem, because your friends will pass what you said on to the host, and in the future, care will be taken not to offend you in this way again.

#  Don't attend future parties like this. If you have a hard time being firm, or this host has a hard time taking "no" for an answer, just don't go next time.  When friends ask why you aren't attending, tell the truth.  Say, "Well, last time I went, it seemed all anyone cared about was seeing me drink.  I don't care to party that way (with alcohol or drugs) any more.  Until I feel sure that my "no" will be accepted and I won't be badgered all night, I'm not going to go."  That should take care of the problem, because your friends will pass what you said on to the host, and in the future, care will be taken not to offend you in this way again.